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Abijah: The Chronicles of Judah

2 Chronicles is a book rich in history and spiritual lessons. Written around 450 BC, it recounts the journey of the Jewish people during a time of division, exile, and return. Let’s explore some key points and how they relate to our lives today.

 

2 Chronicles is a book rich in history and spiritual lessons. Written around 450 BC, it recounts the journey of the Jewish people during a time of division, exile, and return. Let’s explore some key points and how they relate to our lives today.

The author of 2 Chronicles is often thought to be Ezra, a priestly scholar who had access to various sources. The writing style is similar to the book of Ezra, and the closing verses of 2 Chronicles match the opening verses of Ezra. The book was written after the Jews returned from Babylonian exile, as it mentions King Cyrus of Persia's proclamation allowing them to rebuild the temple in Jerusalem (2 Chronicles 36:22-23).

Unlike the histories of other ancient empires that only recorded their triumphs, the Jewish record includes both their successes and failures. 2 Chronicles was written to remind the Jewish people of their past mistakes and to encourage them to remain faithful to God. Ezra wanted them to remember their resilience in the face of oppression, and that they could maintain their identity even without a king of David's lineage.

Lessons from King Abijah

In 2 Chronicles 13, we encounter King Abijah of Judah. Though he was considered an evil king, he made a powerful stand against Jeroboam, the ruler of the northern kingdom of Israel. Outnumbered 2 to 1, Abijah and his army relied on God, reminding Jeroboam of the "covenant of salt" — a symbol of a permanent, unbreakable agreement with God.

Abijah's speech shows us the importance of trusting in God over human substitutes. Jeroboam had set up golden calves for idol worship, leading the people astray. This was a rejection of God, something Abijah pointed out with his declaration of faith in the Lord.

Who Do You Trust?

This chapter challenges us to consider where we place our trust. Do we rely on political systems, military strength, or our own achievements to keep us safe and successful? Or do we place our trust in the Lord, who never fails and is always faithful?

In times of crisis, our response often reveals our true source of trust. Like Abijah, we need to be prepared to trust in God even when the odds are against us. This trust is not something we develop overnight; it comes from daily practicing our faith, reading scripture, and building a relationship with God.

The "Payback Principle"

2 Chronicles introduces a concept known as the "law of retribution" or the "payback principle." This principle suggests that those who are faithful to God will be blessed, while those who turn away will face consequences. However, this isn't a guarantee for an easy life. We see in other parts of the Bible, like the story of Job, that sometimes the wicked prosper, and the faithful suffer.

The payback principle is more like a proverb than a promise — a general truth rather than an absolute. It teaches us that while faithfulness often leads to blessings, it doesn't mean we are immune to life's challenges.

Jesus and the Payback Principle

Jesus changes the payback principle. In a world that deserves judgment for its sins, Jesus offers grace. He takes on the punishment we deserve, paying our moral debt so that we can receive forgiveness and eternal life. This is the ultimate act of divine love and mercy, and it is why we worship him.

Trusting in God means being faithful each day, knowing that his faithfulness will always remain. Life may not always go as we plan, but God’s presence and promises are unchanging. Remember, the greatest expression of God's faithfulness is found in Jesus, who paid the ultimate price so we could be free.

Let this be a reminder to trust in God, not just in times of crisis, but every day. He is the one who remains steadfast, even when everything else fails.

Blog adapted from September 15, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton

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Rehoboam: The Chronicles of Judah

The study of The Chronicles of Judah offers much more than ancient history. It takes us through a fascinating journey filled with palace intrigue, power struggles, and lessons about faith that resonate deeply in our lives today. Through its chapters, we encounter heroes and villains, moments of triumph and failure, and we witness the unfolding story of a nation in decline. Yet, beneath the surface, these stories provide profound lessons that continue to shape our understanding of leadership, faith, and our relationship with God.

 

The study of The Chronicles of Judah offers much more than ancient history. It takes us through a fascinating journey filled with palace intrigue, power struggles, and lessons about faith that resonate deeply in our lives today. Through its chapters, we encounter heroes and villains, moments of triumph and failure, and we witness the unfolding story of a nation in decline. Yet, beneath the surface, these stories provide profound lessons that continue to shape our understanding of leadership, faith, and our relationship with God.

As Christians, we are always looking for ways to grow in our discipleship. The Chronicles of Judah challenges us to reflect on who influences us, how we lead, and where we place our trust. Let's dive into some of the key takeaways from this remarkable study.

Choose Your Influencers Wisely

One of the most significant lessons from this series revolves around the importance of choosing the right influences in our lives. In 2 Chronicles, Rehoboam, the son of Solomon, faced a pivotal moment. When the people asked for relief from the heavy burdens placed upon them, Rehoboam sought advice. He was torn between the wise counsel of experienced elders and the rash advice of his peers. Tragically, he chose the wrong path, opting for harshness and control, which led to the division of the nation.

This story reminds us that who we listen to matters. The voices we allow to shape our thinking will impact the direction of our lives. In today's world, we are surrounded by countless influencers, from social media personalities to public figures. But as Christians, we must be intentional in seeking godly counsel—those who lead us closer to Christ and reflect the character we desire to develop.

Take inventory of who you surround yourself with. Are your closest relationships pushing you toward deeper faith, wisdom, and Christlike character? Proverbs 13:20 tells us, "Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm." We become like the people we spend the most time with, so it's essential to choose wisely.

Leaders Create Ripples

Another crucial lesson from The Chronicles of Judah is the far-reaching impact of leadership. Rehoboam’s decision didn’t just affect him—it had consequences for an entire nation. This principle extends beyond political leaders to anyone in a position of influence, whether it’s in the workplace, the church, or within the family.

Every leader, whether in business, ministry, or parenting, creates ripples through their actions. Wise decisions can inspire trust, loyalty, and flourishing, while harsh or selfish leadership breeds rebellion and division. As followers of Christ, we are called to lead with humility, wisdom, and a servant’s heart, reflecting the character of Jesus.

Leadership is not about controlling others—it’s about inspiring those around us to grow and thrive. Jesus is our perfect example. His leadership was never about forcing others into submission but about inviting them into a relationship of trust and transformation. As we lead in our respective roles, we should always strive to reflect this kind of leadership.

Jesus, the King Who Carries Our Burdens

Perhaps the most powerful theme in this study is the contrast between earthly kings like Rehoboam and the ultimate King—Jesus Christ. Rehoboam, in his insecurity, sought to increase the burdens of his people. He demanded more labor and heavier taxes, ultimately leading to division and rebellion.

In contrast, Jesus offers us rest. He doesn’t increase our burdens; He carries them. In Matthew 11:28-30, Jesus extends this invitation:

"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light."

Where earthly kings may rule with a heavy hand, Jesus leads with gentleness and grace. His leadership is not about domination but about freedom. When we come to Him, He bears the weight of our sins, our struggles, and our worries. In His kingdom, we find rest for our souls and strength for the journey.

Walking Forward in Faith

The lessons from The Chronicles of Judah challenge us to reflect on our own journey of faith. Who is influencing you? How are you leading those in your sphere of influence? Are you allowing Jesus to carry your burdens?

These ancient stories remind us that the choices we make in our relationships, leadership, and faith can have a lasting impact. By choosing godly influences, leading with humility, and trusting Jesus with our burdens, we can walk confidently in our discipleship journey.

Let these timeless truths inspire you to pursue deeper faith, to lead with grace, and to rest in the knowledge that Jesus is the King who always carries our burdens. May your life reflect the beauty of His kingdom, a place where division is healed, and peace is restored.

Blog adapted from September 8, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton

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God’s Still, Small Voice

In a world saturated with countless voices competing for our attention, the challenge of hearing God’s voice becomes even more vital. We crave to cut through the noise and connect with the pure, untainted voice of God—the pathway to life itself. Hearing his voice invites us to live in the slipstream of the supernatural, where the Holy Spirit’s presence guides our every step.

 

In a world saturated with countless voices competing for our attention, the challenge of hearing God’s voice becomes even more vital. We crave to cut through the noise and connect with the pure, untainted voice of God—the pathway to life itself. Hearing his voice invites us to live in the slipstream of the supernatural, where the Holy Spirit’s presence guides our every step.

This journey to hear God isn’t new; it’s been the focus of our series for the past few weeks, building on the foundation we’ve laid together.

Week 1: We began by discussing the importance of eliminating interference—those roadblocks like sin, distraction, and simply not listening, which hinder us from hearing God. There was a church-wide challenge to remove these distractions and confess sin, creating a clear path to hear God’s voice. For some, this was a revolutionary move, setting the stage for a more profound spiritual journey.

Week 2: We explored the necessity of renewing our minds—sharing the mind of Christ, committing to truth, and immersing ourselves in scripture daily. When our minds align with God, it’s easier to hear and respond to his promptings.

These foundations are crucial, yet if we stop here, we risk slipping into legalism—where the focus is solely on personal righteousness and Bible knowledge. But what’s missing? The dynamic of a personal relationship with God, the wild ride of an untamed Holy Spirit. Jesus described the Spirit as a wind that blows wherever it wants—unpredictable, powerful, and free.

This brings us to our subject today: connecting with the still, small voice of God. We’ll dive into the story of Elijah in 1 Kings 19, where this phrase originates.

Elijah, a prophet sent by God, had just experienced a dramatic victory over the prophets of Baal on Mount Carmel. Fire from heaven had consumed his sacrifice, proving the power of the one true God. But despite this victory, when Queen Jezebel threatened his life, Elijah fled in fear and despair.

What happened here? How could a prophet who had just witnessed such a powerful display of God's might suddenly crumble in fear? Elijah likely had expectations—perhaps he thought Jezebel and Ahab would repent, or that there would be an uprising among the people in response to God’s power. But when his expectations weren’t met, he ran.

God does not submit to our expectations.

Elijah’s formula of fire from heaven plus the end of the drought should have equaled repentance and restoration. But God had his reasons, and they didn’t align with Elijah’s expectations. This teaches us that we are bit players in God’s grand drama, often unaware of his reasons and unable to see the results we desire. God’s plans surpass our understanding, and he doesn’t submit to our desires or timelines.

Elijah, exhausted and discouraged, traveled far from Jezebel, eventually reaching Beersheba. In his despair, God met him in a surprising way—not through dramatic miracles or powerful words, but through an angel’s touch, a nap, and a meal. Sometimes, the most spiritual thing we can do is rest in God’s care, trusting that he knows what we need at each moment.

God speaks differently every time.

In Elijah’s case, it wasn’t a whirlwind, an earthquake, or fire that carried God’s voice, but a gentle whisper. God’s voice can come in unexpected ways, and if we’re waiting for him to speak in a certain manner, we might miss what he’s saying. He uses a variety of means—circumstances, scripture, people, and yes, even a nap and a snack—to communicate with us.

Learning to distinguish God’s voice from others is crucial. God’s voice is bent on life, truth, and righteousness, leading us toward his purposes. In contrast, the enemy’s voice breeds discouragement, shame, and destruction. Over time, as we eliminate distractions and fill our minds with God’s word, we become more attuned to his voice, just as a parent can pick out their child’s voice in a crowded room.

After Elijah's rest and nourishment, he journeyed to Mount Horeb, expecting a dramatic encounter with God. But instead of a whirlwind or fire, God spoke to Elijah in a still, small voice, correcting Elijah’s assumption that he was alone. God revealed that he had reserved seven thousand others in Israel who had remained faithful.

God corrects our wrong assumptions and gives us the next step, but not the master plan.

For Elijah, this meant anointing the next generation of leaders. Sometimes, God asks us to participate in his plans not because we’re the key to changing history, but because he delights in involving us in his work. Just as a parent might let their child help with a task, God invites us to join him, experiencing the joy of working alongside him.

Within Elijah’s story lies the broader narrative of God’s redemptive work, a reminder that God’s plans are bigger than our expectations, and his ways are higher than our ways. As we seek to hear his voice, we must remain open to the surprising ways he might speak, ready to respond with faith and obedience, trusting that his voice will lead us into the life he has designed for us.

Blog adapted from August 18, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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Train Your Mind to Hear God

Have you ever stopped to think about the incredible power of the human brain? Consider this: your brain weighs just three pounds, is made up mostly of water and fat, and has over 100 billion neurons that transmit information at 270 mph. Yet, it has no pain receptors, allowing for brain surgeries on awake patients. The average person has about 70,000 thoughts a day.

 

Have you ever stopped to think about the incredible power of the human brain? Consider this: your brain weighs just three pounds, is made up mostly of water and fat, and has over 100 billion neurons that transmit information at 270 mph. Yet, it has no pain receptors, allowing for brain surgeries on awake patients. The average person has about 70,000 thoughts a day. What’s even more fascinating is that the brain physically changes based on our habits, much like how muscles grow in response to exercise. This phenomenon is why repetition matters—because practice doesn’t just make perfect; it changes the very structure of your brain.

All this time, while you've been reading about the brain, your brain has been learning about itself. Mind-blown, right? But what’s the connection between understanding how our brains work and hearing God's voice?

The Mind and Faith

In some Christian circles, the mind is sometimes viewed as antithetical to faith. You might have heard leaders say that faith means believing in something that defies common sense. Critics of Christianity often argue that faith is opposed to intellectualism or science. They might even claim that believing in a higher power is foolish or that morality is an outdated concept.

However, Christianity actually embraces the mind's role in faith. Being created in the image of God means that we are made in the likeness of a divine mind—a mind that thought up DNA, biodiversity, and the complex systems within our bodies. God is the great mind, the all-knowing knower of all things, and we are designed to share in his thoughts.

Renewing the Mind: A Pathway to Knowing God's Will

Romans 12:2 tells us, "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing, and perfect will." This verse outlines a two-step process: first, be transformed by the renewing of your mind, and second, you will be able to discern God’s will.

If you’re seeking to understand God’s will for your life—whether it’s in crisis management, family decisions, financial stewardship, or life priorities—a transformed mind is your entry point. God wants us to think his thoughts after him. This means aligning our minds with his through practices like meditation, prayer, and immersing ourselves in Scripture.

Resisting Cultural Pressure

In today’s world, the pressure to conform is immense. Whether it’s through social media, news outlets, or popular culture, there’s a constant push to mold our thoughts to fit societal norms. But Romans urges us not to let the world squeeze us into its mold. Instead, we’re called to conform our minds to God’s reality, not the other way around.

Many messages from culture are misleading, such as advertising that equates happiness with consumerism or beauty with unattainable standards. These false messages can lead us astray, but by renewing our minds with God’s truth, we can resist these pressures and think like Jesus.

The Power of Scripture

The Bible is the ultimate source of truth and wisdom. It’s a field of play that sets the boundaries for truth about God, humanity, and morality. Within these boundaries, there is incredible freedom to make wise decisions. Engaging with Scripture consistently—ideally, four times a week or more—has been shown to bring remarkable transformation in people’s lives.

Here are a few practical steps to activate your Bible reading:

  1. Get a Study Bible: Tools like the NIV Study Bible offer great notes and connections between passages.

  2. Immerse Yourself in the Text: See yourself in the stories. Ask, "What if I were in this situation?"

  3. Consistency is Key: Daily engagement with the Bible, even just ten minutes, makes a significant difference.

  4. Write Down Insights: Whether it’s promises, questions, or truths that stand out, writing helps cement these insights.

  5. Align Your Mind with Scripture: When you encounter something in the Bible that challenges your current thinking, ask yourself, “Who is smarter—God or me?” Let Scripture guide your thoughts and actions.

Hearing God's Voice

Hearing God’s voice isn’t just about what we do; it’s about who we are. It’s a reflection of our identity as his children. When we conform our minds to his through Scripture, prayer, and meditation, we align ourselves with his will. God’s word is always effective, accomplishing his purpose every time.

As you engage with Scripture and allow your mind to be transformed, you’ll find it easier to hear from God. His stories will be stored in your long-term memory, and when you face challenges, the Spirit will bring relevant verses to mind. Hearing God is not just an activity; it’s a way of life.

So, what if we all lived this way? What if billions of people loved their neighbors, walked humbly, cared for the poor, and followed the teachings of Jesus? The world would be a dramatically different place.

In conclusion, if you want to hear God’s voice, start by renewing your mind with his word. Let his thoughts become your thoughts, and you’ll find yourself aligned with his will in ways that are both profound and life-changing.

Blog adapted from August 11, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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How to Hear from God

In a world bustling with noise and distractions, the quest to hear God's voice is a desire that resonates deeply with many. God is not silent. His voice reverberates through creation, the Scriptures, and the life of Jesus. Yet, amidst the chaos of modern life, many wonder how to discern this divine communication. How do we distinguish God's voice from our own thoughts or external influences? The journey to hear God requires intentional effort, introspection, and a commitment to clear the path for divine interaction.

 

In a world bustling with noise and distractions, the quest to hear God's voice is a desire that resonates deeply with many. God is not silent. His voice reverberates through creation, the Scriptures, and the life of Jesus. Yet, amidst the chaos of modern life, many wonder how to discern this divine communication. How do we distinguish God's voice from our own thoughts or external influences? The journey to hear God requires intentional effort, introspection, and a commitment to clear the path for divine interaction.

The Constant Divine Communicator

God's communication is omnipresent. From the intricate design of nature to the profound narratives in the Bible, His voice is continuously echoing. Observing the stars, the complexity of living beings, and our own bodies reveals a supreme intelligence orchestrating the universe. Through the prophets, God has sent messages of truth and righteousness. The Bible serves as a historical record and a guide, revealing God's character, humanity's purpose, and our ultimate destiny. The culmination of this communication is found in Jesus, whose life, death, and resurrection affirm His divinity and the depth of God's desire to connect with us.

Barriers to Hearing God

Despite God's constant communication, many struggle to hear His voice. There are significant barriers that create interference, preventing clear reception. Understanding and addressing these barriers is crucial to fostering a lifestyle where hearing God becomes a daily reality.

  1. Living by Our Own Standards: Proverbs 16:25 warns, "There is a way that appears to be right, but in the end it leads to death." Often, we follow our own judgment, which can lead us away from God. This self-reliant approach results in spiritual deafness. To hear God, we must align our lives with His wisdom and principles.

  2. Unaddressed Sin: Sin creates a barrier to hearing God. Proverbs 16:27-29 highlights the destructive nature of evil plots, conflict, and violence. Engaging in gossip, slander, immorality, or selfish pursuits distances us from God's voice. Just as a radio station tuned to the wrong frequency produces static, living in sin disrupts our spiritual reception. Clearing these sins from our lives is essential for clear communication with God.

  3. Self-Deception: Proverbs 16:2 states, "All a person’s ways seem pure to them, but motives are weighed by the Lord." We often overestimate our righteousness, justifying our actions and ignoring our faults. Conducting a personal, systematic evaluation of our lives and motives, and seeking God's help to change, is vital for hearing Him clearly.

  4. Distractions: Modern life is filled with distractions, especially from technology. Constant notifications, emails, and the allure of social media can drown out God's voice. Proverbs 16:16 emphasizes the value of wisdom over material wealth. To hear God, we need to intentionally minimize distractions and create quiet spaces for reflection and listening.

Embracing the Way of Wisdom

Proverbs 16:16-31 outlines the path of wisdom, which aligns us with God's patterns and purposes. This alignment involves:

  • Trusting in Jesus: Acknowledging Jesus as the Son of God and following His example of wisdom.

  • Clearing the Interference: Renouncing sin and aligning our thoughts and actions with God's word.

  • Living a Lifestyle of Listening: Developing daily habits that foster spiritual sensitivity and receptivity.

Practical Steps to Hearing God

Hearing God is not about following a strict formula but embracing a lifestyle of attentiveness and obedience. Here are practical steps to cultivate this lifestyle:

  1. Seek God Daily: Set aside dedicated time for prayer, meditation, and reading Scripture.

  2. Act on God's Instructions: Obey the promptings and instructions God has already given you.

  3. Address Sin: Regularly examine your life for any unconfessed sin and seek God's forgiveness.

  4. Minimize Distractions: Limit screen time and create quiet moments to listen for God's voice.

  5. Embrace Flexibility: Recognize that God's guidance can come in various forms—dreams, visions, circumstances, or subtle nudges.

Hearing God's voice is a lifelong journey of growth and discovery. As you clear the path and align with His wisdom, you'll find that divine communication becomes a natural part of your everyday life. Embrace the process, stay committed, and remember that God is always speaking. The question is, are you ready to listen?

Blog adapted from August 4, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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Sharing Your Faith Made Easy

When we think about the vastness of the world and the billions of people who inhabit it, the message of the good news can feel overwhelming. How can we possibly reach everyone? Yet, if we believe that this message is meant for every person on earth, we must also believe it is meant for Nebraskans and, yes, even our neighbors across the Missouri River in Iowa.

 

When we think about the vastness of the world and the billions of people who inhabit it, the message of the good news can feel overwhelming. How can we possibly reach everyone? Yet, if we believe that this message is meant for every person on earth, we must also believe it is meant for Nebraskans and, yes, even our neighbors across the Missouri River in Iowa.

Our Mission: Reaching Those Closest to Us

We are strategically positioned to reach those geographically near us. This isn't just about proximity but about the relationships and connections we already have. God has placed us here, in this time and place, as part of a mission that traces back through centuries, all the way to the apostles. Each of us is here because someone shared the good news with us, and before them, someone else passed it on, continuing a chain of grace that spans two millennia. Our challenge is whether we will be the final link in that chain or if we will continue it by reaching one more person.

Reaching out isn't just for those with a Bible school degree or years of ministry experience. It's an all-skate—everyone is in. You can't reach 500,000 people in Omaha or 8 billion around the world by making it the exclusive job of a few. We need everyone—kids, seniors, athletes, couch potatoes, those with a fashion sense, and those without. It was the ordinary people, the "Joes" rather than the "Pros," that Jesus chose. So if you think you're just a "Joe" and not a "Pro," he's calling you to go!

Sharing the Good News: Your Story and His Story

There will come a time when you're at a table with people who don't know Jesus. Remember our challenge? At that moment, it will become clear that there's a gap in their understanding about how to find eternal life. There are two key things you should be able to do: tell your story and tell His story.

Telling Your Story

Everyone has a story. One of the biggest fears people have is that their story isn't exciting enough. They feel their story needs to be a dramatic transformation from prison to freedom. However, each of us has experienced moments of brokenness where Jesus made a difference. It could be a shift from confusion to truth, from following rules to living in grace, or from seeking gratification in worldly pleasures to finding fulfillment in Jesus. Maybe it was a moment of healing, overcoming an addiction, changing how you raise your kids, or moving from loneliness to a life filled with God's presence.

Your story doesn't need to be about moving from everything bad to everything good. Life with God is a journey, and he meets us in our brokenness, empowering us when life is at its lowest. Conversations about your story can happen anywhere—at home, in public, or even online.

Take Kylie Cole, for example. She is a school counselor, a mother, and someone who has experienced significant loss. Kylie shares her story of recovery from alcoholism openly and authentically on Facebook. Here’s a piece she shared recently:

I am ten years sober and to celebrate, I’m sharing a few pieces I’ve written over the years regarding my experience with alcohol with a corresponding picture from the day I wrote it. Behind smiles in photos are often hurts, grief, struggles, anger, pain, etc. - all of which don’t show up in a picture.

The writings are raw, authentically me, and it brings me joy and peace sharing in hopes that my vulnerability breeds vulnerability in others.

This one might be my favorite:

Thirsty (Oct 2023)

I’m Kylie, I’m an alcoholic. And it’s been 9 years and 4 months since I’ve had a drink. And I’m thirsty.

For soul rest
For freedom
For unconditional love
For fun
For redemption

In my heart: I believe all these things are found only in Jesus. In my head: I want a drink that’s a little stronger, no offense.

When I drank, I let go. When I drank, I cried. When I drank, someone else was the strong one. When I drank, my walls came down. When I drank, I felt free.

A drink sounds pretty good right now.

I wasn’t made to be the strong one. I wasn’t made to bear the weight of the cross. I wasn’t made to prove my worth or earn my way.

He was. He is. And He always will be.

But practically?

“Surrender” makes me want to puke. “Trust” is difficult for me. “Obey” - uhhhhhh “Love” - don’t even get me started…

I don’t have this figured out, not even close. And it pains me to say I don’t think I’ll ever “get there”.

I’m a mess. I’m on multiple therapists’ calendars.

Kylie wants a drink. The Holy Spirit says He’s the answer.

“Everyone who drinks from this well will thirst again. But whoever drinks from the water I give will never thirst again.”

I’m Kylie.

And in Christ, I am a child of God. I am a daughter of the King. I am forgiven, washed clean by His blood, and redeemed. I am loved unconditionally by a perfect Father. I have been given the gift of the Holy Spirit to guide me and sanctify me. I have nothing to earn or prove because He’s done it all already. I was made for a purpose: to know Him and glorify Him in all - to love Him, and out of that love, love others. I will spend eternity in heaven with Him.

I’m still thirsty.

But I know, that I know, that I know.

He who quenches that thirst.

— Kylie Cole

Kylie’s story is a powerful example of vulnerability and humility. It points to Jesus, not herself, and reveals a window of brokenness—thirst—that many can relate to.

Think about your own windows of brokenness. How has Jesus transformed those parts of your life? This past week, I had dinner with a friend from my science and faith forum. After listening to his spiritual journey, I shared my story of moving from skepticism to clarity. It was a powerful moment.

Telling His Story: The Three Circles

Now, let's talk about telling His story. Sometimes, you'll have the chance to explain the main message of Christianity in just a few minutes. Whether you’re addressing misconceptions about Jesus or simply sharing the good news, it helps to have a clear and concise tool.

One such tool is the "Three Circles" method:

  1. Circle of Brokenness:

    • We live in a world full of brokenness—abusive relationships, divorce, greed, people hurting people, suicide, wars, anxiety.

    • We try to escape through alcohol, success, changing partners, or escapism through TV or the internet, but we always get pulled back into brokenness, often worse than before.

    • This sense that something is deeply wrong comes from the fact that the world isn't as it was meant to be.

  2. Circle of God’s Design:

    • God designed the world to operate according to His ways—love, abundance, order, healthy relationships, justice, humility.

    • Our hearts long for this, but every human has turned away from it. Every time we betray God's ways—whether through lying, judgment, or more severe sins—we contribute to the world's brokenness. This rebellion is called sin, and everyone is guilty.

    • If we die in this state, we remain separated from God forever.

  3. Circle of Jesus' Solution:

    • God provided a solution by sending Jesus to our broken world. Jesus took all the brokenness—the lies, hatred, and murder upon Himself and paid the ultimate price by dying.

    • But the game-changer is that He rose from the dead. Jesus conquered death and brought a new way of life—a kingdom where He reigns as our king, bringing peace, healing, and restoration.

    • To enter this new life, we must trust Him rather than our own efforts or escapes and ask Him to be our king.

You can ask someone, "Where do you see yourself living right now? In brokenness or in God’s perfect design? Where would you like to live?" If they express a desire to live in God's design, offer to help them get there.

Practicing the Three Circles

I appreciate several things about the Three Circles method:

  1. It starts with brokenness, which everyone can relate to. Starting with God might lead to immediate rejection, but brokenness is a common ground.

  2. It highlights God's heart and explains sin in a way that gives everyone responsibility.

  3. The solution of Jesus is clear, emphasizing His death, resurrection, and kingdom.

  4. It concludes with life, renewal, and aligning with God's heart.

  5. You can add elements like Bible verses or additional steps for growth and ongoing discipleship.

To get comfortable with this tool, it’s important to practice. Sharing the gospel, like any skill, requires repetition. Athletes, pilots, and musicians all get better through repeated practice, and the same goes for sharing your faith.

A Challenge for This Week

This week, I challenge you to share the Three Circles with someone who isn't a regular churchgoer. Tell them you’ve just learned this new tool to explain Christianity in under three minutes and ask for their feedback.

Remember, it takes practice to get good at this. You might feel awkward at first, but God will guide you. Let's continue the chain of grace by reaching one more person.

If you’d like a quick refresher, check out this video that explains the Three Circles in under three minutes: Three Circles in Three Minutes.

Let’s go out and share the good news!

 
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Turning Walls into Tables

Have you ever stumbled across one of those channels on YouTube that are all about “fails”? If not, let me paint you a picture. It’s a treasure trove of 10-second clips showcasing people’s misadventures—think golf carts splashing into lakes, BMX riders wiping out, or the classic guy walking into an invisible sliding glass door. It's a collage of human error, often hilarious, yet oddly relatable. There’s something about other people’s missteps that strikes a chord, bringing out our inner junior high humor.

In many ways, my attempts at sharing my faith often resemble a reel fails. I imagine myself confidently sharing my beliefs, only to find the ramp collapsing beneath me, or running headlong into an invisible wall. Can anyone else relate?

 

Have you ever stumbled across one of those channels on YouTube that are all about “fails”? If not, let me paint you a picture. It’s a treasure trove of 10-second clips showcasing people’s misadventures—think golf carts splashing into lakes, BMX riders wiping out, or the classic guy walking into an invisible sliding glass door. It's a collage of human error, often hilarious, yet oddly relatable. There’s something about other people’s missteps that strikes a chord, bringing out our inner junior high humor.

In many ways, my attempts at sharing my faith often resemble a reel fails. I imagine myself confidently sharing my beliefs, only to find the ramp collapsing beneath me, or running headlong into an invisible wall. Can anyone else relate?

The beauty of Jesus’ teachings, though, lies in his masterful guidance on navigating these very walls. He didn’t just acknowledge their existence—he taught his disciples how to overcome them. Today, let's explore four such walls: Tribalism, Distraction, Religion, and Conversational Avoidance. Through one powerful story, we’ll see how Jesus dismantled each one.

The Journey Begins: Mark 7:31

Our journey starts in Mark 7:31, where Jesus leaves Tyre and travels through Sidon down to the Sea of Galilee, finally entering the region of the Decapolis. To fully appreciate this, let’s bring up a map for a visual aid.

Imagine Jesus and his disciples at their ministry hub in Capernaum. Typically, their trips were within familiar Jewish territory. But this time, Jesus takes them on an unexpected detour. They head north to Tyre and Sidon, notorious for their Baal worship and as Jezebel’s hometown. They then turn southeast into the Decapolis, a predominantly Gentile area.

For the disciples, this journey must have been like venturing into unknown, even hostile, territory. It's akin to modern-day explorers stepping into regions where they might not be warmly received. Yet, Jesus has a purpose: to break down the walls dividing them from others.

Wall 1: Tribalism

Tribalism is a universal barrier. It’s present in language, culture, and history. Whether it’s lingering sports rivalries or deep political divides, tribalism thrives on creating “us vs. them” dynamics.

Even in Nebraska, sports loyalties run deep, like the grudge against Miami from that football game back in 1981. The most glaring example today, however, might be the political chasm between Democrats and Republicans, each side often reduced to stereotypes by media outlets.

Jesus addressed tribalism by physically leading his disciples into the heart of it—the Decapolis, a land teeming with non-Jews. His approach was radical: instead of avoiding the unfamiliar, he turned walls into tables. He invited his followers to sit with those different from them, to find common ground, and to see the shared humanity in everyone.

Application: Go where people are, especially where you’re the minority. Engage in neighborhoods, schools, and social settings where you can build bridges rather than walls.

Wall 2: Distraction

Mark 8:1-21 brings us to the miracle of feeding the 4,000. Despite having witnessed Jesus multiply bread before, the disciples are again unsure of how to feed the crowd. This time, though, the miracle isn’t just about providing a meal; it's about time together.

Jesus spent three days with these people, building trust and rapport. By the time the crowd sat down to eat, they were no longer strangers but a community. This prolonged engagement turned a barren plain into a shared table where everyone was nourished.

Application: Prioritize time with people, especially those outside your faith community. It's easy to get distracted by our own lives, but genuine connections require investment. Create opportunities for leisurely conversations, and share meals that foster deeper relationships.

Wall 3: Religion

After crossing back to the other side of the lake, the Pharisees demand a sign from Jesus, testing him. But Jesus refuses to perform on demand, instead warning his disciples to beware of the “yeast of the Pharisees” (Mark 8:11-15).

This yeast symbolizes the insidious nature of religion as performance—where faith becomes about checking boxes and following rules rather than a genuine relationship with God. True faith transcends the confines of religious ritual, inviting a dynamic and life-giving connection with the divine.

Application: Shift focus from religious rituals to a personal relationship with Jesus. People are not seeking a rulebook but a transcendent experience of God. Point others to the person of Jesus, not merely the principles of a system.

Wall 4: Conversational Avoidance

As Jesus continued teaching, he used the miracles to engage his disciples in deeper reflection. The symbolism of the numbers in the feeding miracles—12 baskets for the 5,000 in Jewish territory and 7 for the 4,000 in Gentile land—was a lesson in inclusivity and completeness (Mark 8:16-21).

Jesus constantly initiated conversations that provoked thought and insight, inviting people to see beyond the obvious. This kind of engagement is crucial in breaking through the wall of conversational avoidance.

Application: Be a guide in conversations. Share your insights and ask questions that encourage deeper thinking. Turn mundane moments into opportunities for meaningful dialogue.

Conclusion: From Walls to Tables

To truly share our faith, we must transform walls into tables:

  • Tribalism into common ground.

  • Distraction into quality time together.

  • Religion into a hunger for the transcendent.

  • Conversational Avoidance into engagement.

As we navigate these walls, let's follow Jesus’ example—embracing the journey, sitting down at tables with those different from us, and sharing our lives in a way that invites others into the richness of faith. By doing so, we can turn moments of potential failure into opportunities for deeper connection and understanding.

Reflect and Engage

  • Identify a wall: What are the barriers in your own life that keep you from engaging with others meaningfully?

  • Take a step: How can you transform a wall into a table this week? Whether it’s spending time with someone new, engaging in a deeper conversation, or simply being present, take that step.

  • Share your story: How have you overcome walls in your journey of faith? Sharing your experiences can inspire others to do the same.

Let’s commit to turning our walls into tables, creating spaces where everyone is welcome and where the richness of faith can be shared freely.

Blog adapted from June 23, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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Does Jesus Still Heal?

In the heart of the Gospels, we encounter profound stories of Jesus interacting with the broken and marginalized, offering them healing and hope. The Gospel of Matthew, particularly chapters 8 and 9, provides a vivid narrative of these encounters, showcasing not only Jesus' compassion but also his power to heal and transform lives. Let's delve into these passages and uncover the timeless lessons they hold for us today.

 

In the heart of the Gospels, we encounter profound stories of Jesus interacting with the broken and marginalized, offering them healing and hope. The Gospel of Matthew, particularly chapters 8 and 9, provides a vivid narrative of these encounters, showcasing not only Jesus' compassion but also his power to heal and transform lives. Let's delve into these passages and uncover the timeless lessons they hold for us today.

Matthew's Perspective on Jesus' Ministry

Matthew, one of Jesus' closest disciples, offers a unique perspective. In Matthew 9:9, we find him at his tax collector booth when Jesus calls him with a simple yet profound invitation: "Follow me." There was something irresistibly magnetic about Jesus that compelled Matthew to abandon his old life and embark on a new journey of faith.

This decision wasn't made in isolation. Matthew immediately gathered his friends, fellow tax collectors, and even some individuals of questionable reputation, for a meal with Jesus. This gathering is a testament to Matthew's understanding of relational influence—he wanted his friends to meet Jesus and experience the transformative power he had encountered. No sermon series or elaborate planning was needed; Matthew just knew that bringing people to Jesus was the most powerful act he could do.

The Pharisees' Challenge and Jesus' Response

As Jesus dined with Matthew and his eclectic group of friends, the Pharisees looked on with disdain. They questioned Jesus' choice of company, asking his disciples why he would associate with "tax collectors and sinners." Jesus' response is profound: "It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance" (Matthew 9:12-13).

This interaction highlights Jesus' mission—to seek out and save those who are lost. He wasn't interested in maintaining social or religious boundaries but rather in breaking them down to reach those in desperate need of God's grace and healing.

A Series of Miracles in Capernaum

The narrative in Matthew chapters 8 and 9 unfolds in Capernaum, Jesus' ministry headquarters and Matthew's hometown. Here, we witness a series of miraculous events:

  1. Healing a Leper: Jesus touches and heals a man with leprosy, breaking social norms and demonstrating his willingness to embrace the untouchable.

  2. Peter's Mother-in-Law: Jesus heals her fever, showing his concern for everyday ailments.

  3. Demon-Possessed Men: Jesus frees them from their torment, illustrating his power over evil forces.

  4. Calming the Storm: Demonstrating his authority over nature, Jesus calms a raging storm, bringing peace to his disciples.

  5. Paralyzed Man: Jesus forgives his sins and heals his paralysis, highlighting the interconnectedness of spiritual and physical healing.

  6. Raising a Dead Girl and Healing a Bleeding Woman: Jesus' power extends over life and death, offering hope and restoration to the hopeless.

Each miracle is a testament to Jesus' dual mission: proclaiming the arrival of God's kingdom and demonstrating its power through acts of healing and compassion.

Faith and Healing: The Story of the Blind Men

In Matthew 9:27-31, two blind men follow Jesus, calling out for mercy. Jesus engages them with a crucial question, "Do you believe that I am able to do this?" Their affirmative response, "Yes, Lord," leads to their healing. Jesus touches their eyes and says, "According to your faith let it be done to you," and their sight is restored.

This story underscores the power of faith in unlocking divine healing. Jesus' question about their belief isn't just a formality; it's a pivotal moment that invites them to express their faith, which in turn activates his healing power.

Interestingly, Jesus performs the miracle indoors, away from the public eye, and instructs them not to spread the news. This request seems almost impossible to keep, given the profound change in their lives. Yet, it highlights Jesus' desire to manage the timing of his public revelation, avoiding premature attempts by the people to crown him as a political Messiah.

Practical Applications for Us Today

The stories of Jesus' miracles aren't just historical accounts; they carry profound implications for our lives today.

Praying for and with Others

We often underestimate the power and openness of prayer in today's world. Surveys show that a significant majority of people pray, yet many rarely do so out loud or with others. As followers of Jesus, we have a unique opportunity to offer prayer as a tangible expression of God's presence and care.

Whether it's a quick prayer for a neighbor going through a tough time or a more intentional moment of intercession for a friend's healing, our willingness to pray can create powerful moments of connection and hope. As we listen for the Holy Spirit's prompting, we can step into these moments with confidence, trusting that God will work through our prayers.

Trusting God for Healing

At our church, we believe that God's healing power is still active today. Physical, emotional, and spiritual healing are all areas where we can seek and experience God's intervention. Whether through prayer, medical treatment, counseling, or other means, we trust that God is at work bringing wholeness and restoration.

However, we also recognize that healing doesn't always come in the way or timeframe we expect. Sometimes, God uses conventional means like medicine or therapy. Other times, healing might be delayed or look different than we hoped. In all cases, we are called to trust God's goodness and timing.

Embracing the Kingdom of God

Jesus' ministry was marked by a balance of proclamation and demonstration—sharing the good news of God's kingdom and showing its power through acts of compassion and healing. As we follow Jesus' example, we are invited to embody this same balance in our lives.

By offering prayers, seeking healing, and sharing our faith with others, we participate in the ongoing work of God's kingdom. We become conduits of his love and power, bringing hope and healing to those around us.

So, let us embrace the call to follow Jesus closely, to pray boldly, and to trust deeply in his ability to heal and transform lives. As we do, we will witness the incredible impact of his presence and power in our world today.


Blog adapted from June 9, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton



 
 
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Who’s at Your Table?

As we consider the events of one of the most pivotal evenings in Scripture, we need to note the significance of the setting—a meal. This isn't just any meal; it's the Last Supper. Jesus is dining with His disciples for the last time, making a profound impression before His crucifixion. This moment was so remarkable that John dedicates two full chapters to it. Before we dive into the text, let's consider a provocative question: Were the disciples saved at the time of the Last Supper?

 

As we consider the events of one of the most pivotal evenings in Scripture, we need to note the significance of the setting—a meal. This isn't just any meal; it's the Last Supper. Jesus is dining with his disciples for the last time, making a profound impression before His crucifixion. This moment was so remarkable that John dedicates two full chapters to it. Before we dive into the text, let's consider a provocative question: Were the disciples saved at the time of the Last Supper? This question stirs much debate among Christians. Some believe the disciples were saved the moment they left everything to follow Jesus. Others point to Peter’s confession at Caesarea Philippi, “You are the Christ, the son of the living God.” Some argue it was when Jesus breathed on them, saying, “Receive the Holy Spirit.” Still, others contend it was not until the Holy Spirit came at Pentecost.

The answer remains uncertain, but one thing is clear: at this point, the disciples were still in the process of formation. Jesus sat at the table with the twelve men who had been instrumental in his ministry for three years—his closest companions.

The Last Supper Begins

John 13:2 tells us, "The evening meal was in progress, and the devil had already prompted Judas, the son of Simon Iscariot, to betray Jesus." Despite knowing what lay ahead—Peter's denial and Judas' betrayal—Jesus chose to share this meal with them. These men, spiritually confused yet deeply loving, were still not fully committed. They were in process, much like everyone else.

John 13:4-11 describes Jesus washing the disciples' feet. Peter initially resists, saying, “You shall never wash my feet.” But Jesus replies, “Unless I wash you, you have no part with me.” Peter then asks for his whole body to be washed. Jesus explains that once baptized, they are clean, but they still need to confess and be cleansed of daily sins. This act symbolizes Jesus' ongoing forgiveness and Peter’s next step towards deeper trust.

John 13:21-27 recounts Jesus predicting His betrayal, identifying Judas as the betrayer by giving him a piece of dipped bread. Despite knowing Judas would betray Him and Peter would deny him, Jesus still included them. He welcomed people regardless of their backgrounds or beliefs.

Even Jesus experienced betrayal. If he faced it, we should expect and endure similar experiences. John 14:1-10 emphasizes faithfulness and clarity. When Thomas expresses confusion about knowing the way, Jesus responds, “I am the way and the truth and the life.” This statement underscores Jesus’ exclusive path to the Father, stressing the importance of belief in him.

Moving One Step to the Right

Imagine a scale from 1 to 100, with 50 being the point of crossing the line of faith. People range from atheists and those wounded by religion at the lower end to paragons of virtue like Mother Teresa and Billy Graham at the higher end. Where were the disciples on this scale? Scholars debate, but the exact location is less important than the trajectory. Jesus focused on helping them take one step to the right, moving closer to him.

This concept is crucial: everyone is in process. Every person we sit down with at a table is on a journey, just as the disciples were. Whenever Jesus sat down at a table, He considered who was there and helped them take a step forward in their faith journey.

Jesus' inclusive approach challenges us. Do we exclude people because of their political views, addictions, or different backgrounds? Do we welcome those with different religious convictions? By being in relational proximity, we can influence others positively. This week, share a table with someone. Plan or make an invitation. Let's emulate Jesus, the friend of sinners, by loving, inviting, and being with people.

Blog adapted from May 26, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton


 
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The Miracle at Cana: Jesus, the Wedding Crasher Who Brought the Best Wine

Welcome to a new series called "At This Table," an early summer journey inspired by the way Jesus connected deeply with others at tables. Whether at Mary and Martha's place, the home of a Pharisee, or the Last Supper, many significant moments in Jesus' ministry happened at tables. This series comes with a challenge for you to choose your level of engagement: Easy, Medium, or Hard. But first, let’s explore the beauty and importance of food and fellowship.

 

Welcome to a new series called "At This Table," an early summer journey inspired by the way Jesus connected deeply with others at tables. Whether at Mary and Martha's place, the home of a Pharisee, or the Last Supper, many significant moments in Jesus' ministry happened at tables. This series comes with a challenge for you to choose your level of engagement: Easy, Medium, or Hard. But first, let’s explore the beauty and importance of food and fellowship.

Challenge for the Summer – Easy, Medium, or Hard?

  • Easy: Perfect for those in crisis or feeling overwhelmed.

  • Medium: Ideal for those doing generally well.

  • Hard: For those hungry for more of Jesus and eager for transformation.

The Gift of Food & Community

Food is a universal gift. I love it in all forms – ethnic, cheesy, grilled, dessert. But it wasn't until I was a sophomore in college, during a "Retreat of Silence," that I truly appreciated food as a gift. We were sent with a simple sack lunch and instructed to eat slowly, savoring each bite and thanking God for it. This experience opened my eyes to the goodness of God in giving us the senses to enjoy food. Preparing food is hard work, often requiring communal effort. This necessity drives us to gather around meals, fostering community. God designed food to be a part of our community life, not just for nourishment but to bring us together.

Jesus and the Table

Jesus often chose meals to connect and transform lives. His first public miracle at the wedding in Cana (John 2:1-11), where he turned water into wine, illustrates his transformative power and generosity. This miracle wasn't just about making wine; it symbolized the new covenant of grace, surpassing the old covenant represented by the ceremonial jars.

Observations from Cana

First, this was Jesus' first public miracle, his "coming out party." Although he seemed reluctant, saying, “My hour has not yet come,” he performed the miracle out of respect and love for his mother and the hosts. This act not only solved an immediate problem but also symbolized the abundance and quality of the new covenant he was bringing. Jesus performed miracles out of love and compassion. At Cana, he saved the hosts from social embarrassment, showing his care for their well-being. He attended weddings, dined with tax collectors and Pharisees, and each time, he brought transformation and blessing.

The Summer of 1,000 Tables

Our dream is to share meals with people who don’t know Jesus, aiming for the "Summer of 1,000 Tables."

  • Easy: Share one meal this summer.

  • Medium: Share a meal once a month.

  • Hard: Share a meal once a week.

The context doesn't matter – it could be a barbecue with neighbors, lunch with coworkers, or a hotdog at a golf course. The goal is relational proximity to non-Christians.

Pray, Eat, and Be a Blessing

When Jesus shows up at a table, he brings blessings. As you share meals, be intentional in praying daily, eating together, and being a blessing. Look for opportunities to make lives around you better through simple acts of kindness and encouragement.

Practical Blessing Examples

  • Sincere Compliments: Encouraging words to neighbors, especially dads, can be powerful.

  • Engagement: Playing with neighborhood kids or inviting them to events.

  • Acts of Service: Bringing meals to families in need or helping with yard work.

By following these simple steps, you'll see dramatic transformations in your relationships and opportunities to share Jesus' love.

Got it? Pray daily, eat together, and be a blessing. Reflect on what God wants you to do this summer. More insights and challenges await next week.

Let's embrace this journey together and make this summer a season of deep, transformative connections around our tables.

Blog adapted from May 19, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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Defining Love

In a world often marred by division and discord, love stands as the universal language that transcends barriers and binds us together. It's a force that drives us, motivates us, and gives our lives profound meaning. Within the realm of faith, love holds a position of unparalleled importance, serving as the cornerstone upon which our beliefs and actions are built. In this blog we take a look at arguably the greatest love chapter of the Bible, 1 Corinthians 13, delving deep into its wisdom and uncovering the profound truths it holds about the nature of love.

 

In a world often marred by division and discord, love stands as the universal language that transcends barriers and binds us together. It's a force that drives us, motivates us, and gives our lives profound meaning. Within the realm of faith, love holds a position of unparalleled importance, serving as the cornerstone upon which our beliefs and actions are built. In this blog we take a look at arguably the greatest love chapter of the Bible, 1 Corinthians 13, delving deep into its wisdom and uncovering the profound truths it holds about the nature of love.

Understanding the Literary Structure: The Chiasm

Before delving into the heart of 1 Corinthians 13, it's crucial to grasp its intricate literary structure. This chapter is nestled within a broader narrative spanning 1 Corinthians 11 to 14, intricately woven together in a chiastic form. Like a mirror reflecting interconnected themes, this structure reveals a profound truth: love permeates every facet of Paul's discourse. From discussions on order in worship to the nature of spiritual gifts, love emerges as the unifying thread that binds together the diverse elements of Christian life. It's a reminder that love isn't merely a sentiment but the very essence of our worship and community life.

Love: The Eternal Virtue

As we unravel the verses of 1 Corinthians 13, we encounter a profound revelation of love's nature. Love isn't just a fleeting emotion or a momentary act of kindness. It's a steadfast commitment, an unwavering dedication to the well-being of others. It's patient, enduring, and unfailingly kind, bearing all things and enduring all things. Yet, it's also a mirror that reflects our growth and shortcomings. It challenges us to confront our flaws, to relinquish pride and selfishness, and to embrace a higher standard of love that transcends mere sentimentality.

Exploring Love's Reach and Impact

Beyond the confines of personal relationships, love extends its reach into the broader tapestry of human existence. It's a force that compels us to extend compassion to the marginalized, to stand up for justice in the face of oppression, and to build communities rooted in empathy and understanding. Love isn't passive; it's a catalyst for change, inspiring acts of courage and selflessness that have the power to transform lives and reshape societies. In embracing love as both a virtue and a calling, we become agents of hope and healing in a world desperately in need of both.

In the grand tapestry of faith, hope, and love, it's love that emerges as the supreme virtue. It's the driving force behind our actions, the catalyst for change, and the beacon of hope in a world shrouded in darkness. As we journey through life, let us hold fast to faith, let us cling to hope, but above all, let us embody love in all that we do. For in the end, it's love that binds us together, sustains us through trials, and leads us into the embrace of the divine. As we strive to live out the profound truths of 1 Corinthians 13, may our lives become a testament to the transformative power of love.

Blog adapted from April 14, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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Headship and Head Coverings

Before delving into the intricate passages of 1 Corinthians 11, it's crucial to approach the text with humility and recognition of its complexity. Within Christian circles, interpretations of this chapter vary, reflecting the challenge of understanding ancient language, cultural context, and theological nuances. As we embark on this journey, let's embrace humility and a willingness to engage with differing perspectives within the body of Christ.

 

Before delving into the intricate passages of 1 Corinthians 11, it's crucial to approach the text with humility and recognition of its complexity. Within Christian circles, interpretations of this chapter vary, reflecting the challenge of understanding ancient language, cultural context, and theological nuances. As we embark on this journey, let's embrace humility and a willingness to engage with differing perspectives within the body of Christ.

Unpacking the Principle of Headship

Paul's discourse on headship in 1 Corinthians 11:3 lays the groundwork for understanding the subsequent discussion on head coverings. This verse, often subject to controversy, highlights the concept of belonging and interdependence within the body of Christ. By exploring the multifaceted meaning of the Greek word "Kephale" (head), we gain insight into Paul's intended message of inclusivity and mutual respect among believers.

Building upon the principle of headship, Paul elucidates its application in various relationships, particularly within the context of marriage. Contrary to hierarchical notions of leadership, Paul emphasizes mutual respect and cooperation between husbands and wives. Through inclusive leadership, husbands are called to elevate and promote their wives, reflecting the unity and interconnectedness modeled by the Trinity.

  • God is the head of Christ by including him, promoting him, and exalting him.  He includes him as the agent of creation.  He puts him in the position to be the redeemer of the world, the prince of peace, the reconciler of humanity.  Not small stuff.  God heads Christ by exalting him to reign with the father.  And ‘he exalted him to the highest place so that at the name of Jesus every knee will bow and every tongue confess that Jesus is lord.’  And now, he reigns WITH the father.

  • Christ heads men and the church by including, promoting, and exalting us.  He includes us because he has chosen not to do ministry without us.  We get to be his hands and feet in this world to lead, teach, pray, and give a cup of cold water in his name.   He allows us to grow and become by using our spiritual gifts for eternal impact.  Plus, one day, we, too, will be exalted and reign with him.  Our destiny is not as disembodied angels but as embodied co-regents with God over everything.

  • Men head women, and Husbands head wives by including, promoting, and exalting them.  So, does it not make sense that men head women by including, promoting, and exalting them – raising them up as co-leaders in every context?  This would include your household, business, church, or wherever you have dominion. 

Understanding Cultural Context and Personal Responsibility

Paul's directives regarding head coverings must be understood within the cultural milieu of ancient Corinth. Cultural norms regarding attire and social propriety informed Paul's instructions, aimed at preserving dignity and avoiding scandal. However, it's essential to recognize that these guidelines are not universally applicable but were tailored to address specific cultural practices. Furthermore, Paul underscores the importance of personal responsibility and autonomy, encouraging individuals to exercise discernment and wisdom in navigating cultural expectations while upholding biblical principles.

As we conclude our exploration of 1 Corinthians 11, let's embrace the diversity of interpretation within the body of Christ while remaining anchored in humility and reverence for Scripture. Whether we interpret headship as hierarchical leadership or mutual partnership, and whether we apply head coverings as cultural artifacts or enduring symbols of respect, may our discussions be characterized by grace, understanding, and a commitment to unity in Christ.

Blog adapted from April 7, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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Evidence For the Resurrection

What defines our existence and gives it meaning? In the climactic chapter of 1 Corinthians 15, Paul points us toward the one thing that surpasses all others – the gospel. Paul's emphasis on the gospel in 1 Corinthians 15 serves as a reminder of its centrality. Amidst discussions on various matters, Paul brings our attention back to the core of our faith – the gospel. He emphasizes that the gospel is not just one among many teachings but the foundation upon which our entire belief system stands. Without holding firmly to this gospel, all other pursuits become futile.

 

In the 1991 movie "City Slickers," Jack Palance's character Curly imparts a profound lesson to Billy Crystal's character about the secret of life. Curly suggests that the secret lies in focusing on one thing, but when pressed to reveal what that one thing is, he leaves it to Billy to figure out. It's a frustrating yet brilliant concept, as life bombards us with distractions, stressors, and myriad concerns. Amidst this chaos, what truly matters? What defines our existence and gives it meaning? In the climactic chapter of 1 Corinthians 15, Paul points us toward the one thing that surpasses all others – the gospel.

Paul's emphasis on the gospel in 1 Corinthians 15 serves as a reminder of its centrality. Amidst discussions on various matters, Paul brings our attention back to the core of our faith – the gospel. He emphasizes that the gospel is not just one among many teachings but the foundation upon which our entire belief system stands. Without holding firmly to this gospel, all other pursuits become futile.

Unveiling the Essence of the Gospel

The essence of the gospel, as outlined by Paul in 1 Corinthians 15, encapsulates the pivotal events of Christ's death and resurrection. Paul distills the gospel message into its core components, highlighting their significance:

  • Christ Died for Our Sins: This fundamental truth underscores the sacrificial nature of Christ's death, wherein he took upon himself the penalty for our sins, offering us redemption and reconciliation with God.

  • According to the Scriptures: Paul emphasizes that Christ's death and resurrection were not arbitrary events but the fulfillment of centuries-old prophecies, demonstrating God's sovereignty and faithfulness throughout history.

  • He Was Raised on the Third Day: The resurrection stands as the linchpin of Christianity, distinguishing it from all other belief systems. Jesus' victory over death validates his divinity and promises eternal life to those who believe.

Embracing the Transformative Power of the Resurrection

The resurrection of Christ holds profound implications for humanity, offering hope, redemption, and victory over death. Paul paints a vivid picture of the transformative power of Christ's resurrection:

  • The Firstfruits of Resurrection: Jesus' resurrection serves as the harbinger of a future resurrection for all believers, symbolizing the defeat of death and the dawn of a new era.

  • The Defeat of Evil: Paul envisions a future where Christ's dominion extends over all realms, dismantling every form of oppression, injustice, and evil. The resurrection inaugurates a kingdom of righteousness and peace.

  • The Choice of Life: In light of these truths, Paul presents a stark choice – to align oneself with the realm of death, characterized by sin and its consequences, or to embrace the realm of life, marked by faith in Christ and participation in his resurrection.

Choosing Life

As we reflect on the profound truths of the gospel, we are confronted with a decision – to stake our lives on the reality of Christ's death and resurrection or to remain in the realm of spiritual death. The invitation is extended to all – to choose life, to embrace the transformative power of the resurrection, and to align ourselves with the kingdom of God. In doing so, we become participants in the ongoing work of redemption and restoration that began with Christ's resurrection and continues to this day.

Blog adapted from March 24, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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All Things to All People

Paul's profound commitment to adapt to different cultural contexts in his mission to spread the Gospel is evident in his letter to the Corinthians. His words resonate through the ages, echoing a profound truth about the importance of contextualization in sharing the message of Christ. As we embark on this journey, we find ourselves at a crossroads where tradition meets innovation, where cultural forms intersect with biblical norms. In this blog post, we'll explore the essence of contextualization through Paul's teachings, real-world examples from Green City to the historical legacy of St. Patrick, and how it applies to each one of us today.

 

Paul's profound commitment to adapt to different cultural contexts in his mission to spread the Gospel is evident in his letter to the Corinthians. His words resonate through the ages, echoing a profound truth about the importance of contextualization in sharing the message of Christ. As we embark on this journey, we find ourselves at a crossroads where tradition meets innovation, where cultural forms intersect with biblical norms. In this blog post, we'll explore the essence of contextualization through Paul's teachings, real-world examples from Green City to the historical legacy of St. Patrick, and how it applies to each one of us today.

Paul's Example and the Essence of Contextualization

Paul's words in Corinthians resonate deeply: "I have become all things to all people so that by all possible means I might save some." His commitment to adapting his approach to different cultures underscores the essence of contextualization in spreading the Gospel. Whether it meant abstaining from certain freedoms or embracing cultural practices, Paul understood that the message of Christ transcends cultural barriers. His example challenges us to reassess our own adherence to traditions and cultural forms that might hinder rather than facilitate the spread of the Gospel.

Real-World Examples: Contextualization in Action

The Green City Initiative offers a contemporary example of contextualization in action. In an all-Muslim culture where identifying as a pastor can be a barrier, local pastors and international workers have found innovative ways to build relationships and share the Gospel. By engaging in reforestation efforts and partnering with corporations on sustainable initiatives, they create opportunities for meaningful interactions and witness to the transformative power of Christ. Their approach underscores the importance of understanding and respecting cultural nuances while remaining steadfast in the message of salvation.

The Legacy of St. Patrick: Contextualization in History

The story of St. Patrick provides a compelling historical example of contextualization's impact. As a former slave turned missionary, Patrick exemplified adaptability and innovation in spreading Christianity throughout Ireland. His emphasis on empowering local communities, promoting literacy, and challenging societal norms paved the way for a thriving Christian church in a once-pagan land. Patrick's legacy reminds us of the enduring significance of contextualization in bridging cultural divides and transforming lives.

As we reflect on Paul's teachings, contemporary examples, and the legacy of St. Patrick, one truth becomes abundantly clear: contextualization is not just a strategy but a fundamental aspect of fulfilling the Great Commission. In a world marked by rapid change and diverse cultures, the need for adaptive and culturally sensitive approaches to sharing the Gospel has never been greater. Each one of us, regardless of age or background, has a role to play in contextualizing the message of Christ for our generation and the next. As we embrace this challenge, let us pray for wisdom, discernment, and a heart willing to become all things to all people for the sake of the Gospel.

Blog adapted from March 17, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton


 
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Lawsuits and Sexual Morality

In our exploration through the book of 1 Corinthians, we confront two contentious topics: lawsuits and sexual immorality. These subjects aren't chosen for mere controversy but to unearth profound lessons on thriving within a flawed congregation. As we delve into Chapter 6, Paul's letter to the Corinthians unveils invaluable guidance on handling disputes within the church community.

 

In our exploration through the book of 1 Corinthians, we confront two contentious topics: lawsuits and sexual immorality. These subjects aren't chosen for mere controversy but to unearth profound lessons on thriving within a flawed congregation. As we delve into Chapter 6, Paul's letter to the Corinthians unveils invaluable guidance on handling disputes within the church community.

When disputes arise among believers, the instinct might be to seek legal recourse. However, Paul urges restraint, reminding us of the broader implications. Dragging internal disagreements into secular courts tarnishes the reputation of Christ. Paul advocates for seeking resolution within the community of believers, tapping into the wisdom present among fellow Christians. This approach not only fosters reconciliation but also upholds the integrity of the faith before the wider world.

Consider the anecdotes of grappling with conflict in the church. In one instance, a Christian business's subpar performance led to a dilemma: pursue legal action or absorb the loss. Another scenario involved a Christian college embroiled in a legal battle with another institution, despite opportunities for reconciliation. In both cases, the decision to avoid litigation prioritized preserving the witness of Christ's followers.

Paul's counsel extends beyond mere conflict resolution; it underscores the significance of love and maintaining a positive reputation among non-believers. By adhering to these principles, even amidst discord, the church can exemplify Christ's teachings in a world fraught with division.

Judging Angels and the Future Reign

Amidst discussions on disputes, Paul interjects with a thought-provoking tangent: the future role of believers in judging the world and even angels. This revelation challenges conventional notions of the afterlife, hinting at a grander purpose for those who follow Christ faithfully.

The prospect of ruling alongside Jesus in the coming age should ignite awe and anticipation. Our current earthly conflicts serve as preparatory exercises for the weightier responsibilities awaiting us. This glimpse into our future underscores the transformative power of aligning our lives with Christ's teachings.

As we navigate present challenges, let's remember that they are but a prelude to the eternal reign promised to believers. Embracing this perspective empowers us to endure with hope and perseverance, knowing that our ultimate destiny far exceeds the trials of today.

Honoring God with Our Bodies

Paul's discourse on sexual immorality serves as a poignant reminder of our sacred identity as temples of the Holy Spirit. He exhorts believers to flee from sexual sin, emphasizing its spiritual significance beyond mere physical pleasure.

Contrary to cultural narratives, sex isn't merely a physical act but a profound union designed by God to reflect the intimacy between Christ and the Church. Engaging in sexual immorality desecrates this sacred union, aligning oneself with darkness rather than light.

Our bodies, indwelt by the Holy Spirit, carry immense value, purchased at the highest cost—the sacrificial death of Jesus. Understanding our worth in God's eyes should compel us to honor Him with our bodies, resisting the allure of sinful indulgence.

In closing, let's embrace our identity as redeemed individuals, purified by the blood of Christ. May our lives testify to the transformative power of God's love, drawing others into the fellowship of believers and ultimately, into the eternal kingdom of God.

Blog adapted from February 18, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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A Biblical Understanding of Sexuality

This week, our journey through 1 Corinthians brings us to a topic that, while perhaps uncomfortable, is crucial for our faith community: sex and sexual immorality. It's not a subject chosen lightly or for sensationalism; rather, it's where our study has naturally led us.

 

This week, our journey through 1 Corinthians brings us to a topic that, while perhaps uncomfortable, is crucial for our faith community—sex and sexual immorality. It’s not a subject chosen lightly or for sensationalism; rather, it's where our study through 1 Corinthians has naturally led us.

In 1 Corinthians 5, Paul confronts a situation of sexual immorality within the Church—a man involved with his stepmother, a scenario that even non-believers found shocking. This passage isn’t just a window into the challenges of the early Church; it’s a mirror reflecting issues still present in today’s churches. So what does Paul mean by sexual immorality? In the Greek, this word is porneia. You can imagine what word we get in English from this Greek root! But in ancient times, there were no illicit websites or dirty magazines. So the translators do a good job saying “sexual immorality.”

The unfortunate reality is that no church is immune to scandals. From the Catholic priest abuse scandal to systemic issues within the Southern Baptist Convention and even closer to home with several in our own denomination, these incidents remind us that sexual immorality knows no denominational bounds. Such events deeply grieve us, not just because of the hypocrisy they unveil, but because of the real harm done to individuals and the broader disillusionment with faith they can cause.

Paul's instruction to “hand this man over to Satan” is a directive towards church discipline with a goal of restoration, not punishment. It’s about removing the individual from the church community in hopes that they will come to repentance and ultimately be saved. It’s a tough, yet necessary, action that underscores the church’s commitment to holiness and the well-being of its members.

The prevalence of sexual immorality and the church’s response to it underscores a larger issue: how we navigate the tension between upholding biblical standards of morality while extending grace and restoration to those who stumble. It’s a balance that requires wisdom, compassion, and a deep reliance on the Holy Spirit.

Moreover, the purity culture movement of recent decades, with its emphasis on sexual abstinence outside of marriage, has garnered criticism for its unintended consequences. While well-intentioned, aspects of this movement have sometimes resulted in shame, guilt, and a distorted view of sexuality and forgiveness. It’s important to remember that our identity and worth are not defined by our past mistakes but by our present and future in Christ.

We must also pay attention to verses 12 and 13, in which Paul states, “What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside? God will judge those outside.” Paul’s letter to the Corinthians was very specific to addressing and dealing with sexual immorality within the church, not amongst unbelievers.

Paul’s message to the Corinthians and to us is clear: the Church must address sexual immorality within its ranks, not with a spirit of condemnation, but with the aim of healing, restoration, and a return to godly living. This includes practical steps for individuals struggling with sexual sin, encouragement for pure relationships, and support for those seeking healing from past hurts.

Paul writes a clarifying section: verse 9 says, “I wrote to you in my letter not to associate with immoral people.” What letter? I thought this was First Corinthians? Well, based on the clues in 1 and 2 Corinthians, like this one, it seems as though Paul actually wrote the Corinthians four times.

As we delve into these topics, let’s approach them with open hearts and minds, ready to learn, grow, and support one another. Our goal is not to cast judgment but to foster an environment where every member of our community can pursue holiness, healing, and the fullness of life in Christ. Together, let’s navigate these waters, leaning not on our own understanding but on the wisdom and guidance of the Holy Spirit.

Blog adapted from February 11, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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Prayer, Humility, and Unseen Dimensions

In the tapestry of faith, prayer is the thread that connects believers with the divine. Reaching one more person for Jesus is a lifelong journey that must be guided by prayer and reliance on God's wisdom, and marked by humility and love.

 

In the tapestry of faith, prayer is the thread that connects believers with the divine. Reaching one more person for Jesus is a lifelong journey that must be guided by prayer and reliance on God's wisdom, and marked by humility and love.

God desires to reach people more than we do. This must serve as the cornerstone of our efforts! Prayer is a powerful tool that opens doors for this. The correlation between prayer and divine opportunities is stunning. We acknowledge that God works in his own timing, but our role in the meantime is to remain steadfast in prayer (1 Corinthians 2:1–3). Let’s continue to be committed to praying for our “one more” every day!

A Lesson in Humility

Let’s now focus on evangelism by taking a look at Apostle Paul’s approach. The manuscript shares a personal journey, admitting to a youthful misconception that superior knowledge and persuasive arguments could win people to Jesus. The realization that humility, not eloquence or human wisdom, is key to effective communication of the gospel is highlighted. The emphasis shifts to the scandalous nature of Christ crucified and its unparalleled power (1 Corinthians 2:4–5).

The centrality of Christ crucified is explored, emphasizing its scandalous nature and its profound impact on human hearts. The manuscript delves into the strategic brilliance of God's plan, where victory over death, sin, and Satan is achieved through weakness, humility, and unwavering commitment. The phrase "We Are All For Jesus" becomes a rallying cry, encapsulating the transformative power of Christ's sacrifice.

Tour Guides, Not Salesmen

The narrative introduces the concept of being 'tour guides' rather than 'salesmen' in sharing the message of Jesus. The approach involves walking alongside, inviting participation, and allowing individuals to respond at their own pace. The importance of self-discovery and inviting others to explore the Bible firsthand is emphasized, echoing the principle of winning hearts, not arguments.

Practical strategies, such as launching seeker groups, are proposed as a means to facilitate deeper exploration of Jesus. Personal stories and anecdotes highlight the effectiveness of this approach, emphasizing the impact of self-discovered truth over persuasive arguments. Moving beyond words, the manuscript introduces the concept of demonstrating the Spirit's power. Miracles, supernatural healings, and transformed lives become powerful testimonies that cannot be refuted. The emphasis on the fruit of the Spirit and service to others as demonstrations of God's power reinforces the second DNA statement: "We Are Empowered by the Holy Spirit."

Wisdom Beyond Conventions & Comprehension

The narrative transitions to the importance of wisdom but cautions against relying on conventional worldly wisdom. The mysterious wisdom of God, hidden throughout history, is declared, revealing a counterintuitive understanding that matures as believers progress in their journey with Christ (I Cor 2:6-8). The manuscript concludes with a thought-provoking exploration of dimensions beyond human comprehension. Drawing inspiration from physics, astronomy, and the Bible, it speculates on the nature of the new bodies believers will receive and the transcendent reality of the New Heavens and New Earth. The anticipation of a future that surpasses imagination becomes a driving force in the mission to reach one more.

In the grand tapestry of faith, prayer, humility, and the revelation of the unseen dimension, weave together to form a compelling narrative of reaching one more for Jesus. The manuscript serves as a guide, encouraging believers to embrace a holistic approach that encompasses prayer, humility, effective communication, and a demonstration of the Spirit's power on the journey of faith.

Blog adapted from January 21, 2024 message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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The Foolishness of the Cross

In the ancient city of Corinth, the Apostle Paul faced a challenge that resonates with today's Church—divisions based on leaders. The Church, once a unified body, began to splinter over preferences for different teachers. This phenomenon is not exclusive to the past; even today, churches face similar challenges, amplified by the influence of the internet. In this blog post, we explore Paul's response to such divisions and reflect on the timeless message of the cross.

 

In the ancient city of Corinth, the Apostle Paul faced a challenge that resonates with today's Church—divisions based on leaders. The Church, once a unified body, began to splinter over preferences for different teachers. This phenomenon is not exclusive to the past; even today, churches face similar challenges, amplified by the influence of the internet. In this blog post, we explore Paul's response to such divisions and reflect on the timeless message of the cross.

The Messiness of Church Life

Paul, having planted the church in Corinth, was dismayed to hear about the factions emerging among the believers. The church was dividing over allegiance to specific leaders—a situation that may sound familiar to many today. Whether it’s aligning with speakers, pastors, or online influencers, the trend of following leaders has persisted through time.

Data/original chart from the Association of Religion Data Archives

Internet Amplification

The internet has exacerbated this issue, providing a plethora of choices for individuals to follow. The availability of renowned speakers and preachers online has led to a situation where people may prioritize their favorite communicators over the local church leaders. This division can result in a fragmented Christian community, contrary to the unity that Paul emphasized.

Paul’s Clear Warning

Paul’s response to this issue is clear and unequivocal: Christians are not meant to follow human leaders blindly. In his letter to the Corinthians, he sarcastically asks if Christ is divided or if Paul was crucified for them. His message is straightforward—there is only one Savior, one message, one Lord, one faith, and one baptism, and that is Jesus Christ.

The Foolishness of the Cross

Central to Paul’s argument is the concept of the foolishness of the cross. The message of the cross may seem absurd to those who do not understand its significance. The world's wisdom often clashes with the divine wisdom encapsulated in the cross. Paul challenges the prevailing values of the Corinthians, who valued eloquent speakers, by asserting that the true power lies in the message of the cross.

Paul introduces an epistemological revolution—a new way of understanding wisdom, power, and wealth. Through the lens of the cross, the world’s wisdom is frustrated, and God’s foolishness becomes the power of salvation. This paradigm shift transforms the way believers perceive the world.

The lens of the world

The lens of the cross

God Chooses the Foolish

In a world that values strength, wisdom, and influence, God deliberately chooses the foolish, weak, and despised to shame the strong. The ordinary and seemingly insignificant become vessels for God’s extraordinary purposes. Paul reminds the Corinthians that God often works through “things that are not” to nullify the “things that are.”

The application is clear—believers are called to boast in the Lord, not in human leaders or worldly accomplishments. As the world’s priorities crumble, what remains is the eternal and glorious wisdom of God. Investing time, resources, and life for the sake of Jesus may seem foolish to the world but is, in fact, the power of God at work.

In a world where divisions over leaders persist, Paul’s message to the Corinthians echoes loudly. The call is to look beyond human leaders, whether local or global, and fix our gaze on the unifying message of the cross. As believers, our allegiance is not to charismatic speakers or influential leaders but to the One who never disappoints—Jesus Christ. The foolishness of the cross becomes the profound wisdom of God, challenging us to boast not in ourselves but in the Lord who unites us all.

Blog adapted from January 14, 2024 message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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Navigating the Messiness of Church: Healing from Church Hurt

Let's be honest—churches are messy. From scandals to personal struggles, the church, in all its imperfection, often surprises us with its flaws. This reality hit home for me during a leadership camp in Michigan with InterVarsity Christian Fellowship. The president, a paragon of virtue, stepped down due to an affair. It shattered my preconceived notions, revealing the messy truth about the church.

 

Let’s be honest—churches are messy. From scandals to personal struggles, the Church, in all its imperfection, often surprises us with its flaws. This reality hit home for me during a leadership camp in Michigan with InterVarsity Christian Fellowship. The president, a paragon of virtue, stepped down due to an affair. It shattered my preconceived notions, revealing the messy truth about the Church.

Experiences of Church Hurt

Church hurt is a real and painful phenomenon, ranging from financial misconduct to rejection of the vulnerable. Stories of infidelity, rejection of unwed pregnant women, and even divisions over trivial matters illuminate the messiness within church communities. As a pastor, I’ve witnessed the underbelly of church life and seen the wounds and struggles of church members.

The Messy Church at Corinth

The Bible itself addresses the messy nature of churches, and perhaps the prime example is the Church at Corinth in Greece. The Apostle Paul, along with his companion Sosthenes, writes a letter to the Corinthians, acknowledging their messiness and offering guidance.

Acknowledging and addressing church hurt is crucial for healing and transformation. Here's a brief overview of steps to navigate the complexities of church hurt:

  1. Define church hurt as immoral. Recognize that hurtful actions within the Church go against the core values of healing, forgiveness, encouragement, and care for the vulnerable. Don't shy away from calling out wrongs.

  2. Separate church hurt from God's love. Differentiate between the actions of individuals within the Church and the character of God. Understand that abusive behavior contradicts the nature of a loving and just God.

  3. Recover your identity. Root your identity in the gospel, understanding that you are sanctified and called to be holy. Seek support outside the toxic church environment, whether through counseling, recovery groups, or a healthier church community.

  4. Reclaim your spiritual practices. Despite past spiritual abuse, reclaim practices like church attendance, Bible study, and prayer. Don’t let the actions of others steal the joy from life-giving practices designed for your edification and growth.

  5. Remember that God is against church hurt. Understand that God grieves when his people experience hurt within the church. He desires to meet individuals in their deepest, most sensitive places and bring healing without force or manipulation.

Navigating church hurt is a challenging journey, but it’s essential for personal growth and restoration. By acknowledging the messiness, separating it from God’s love, reclaiming your identity, and remembering God’s desire for healing, you can find a path to recovery. The Church may be imperfect, but God’s love remains a source of unwavering support.

Blog adapted from January 7, 2024 message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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Love Beyond Understanding

In a world filled with uncertainties and complexities, one truth remains constant - God's love. Love, a concept often misunderstood, transcends the boundaries of human comprehension and is the very essence of our existence. As we delve into the profound message of John 3:16, we uncover the layers of God's love and its transformative power.

 

In a world filled with uncertainties and complexities, one truth remains constant—God's love. Love, a concept often misunderstood, transcends the boundaries of human comprehension and is the very essence of our existence. As we delve into the profound message of John 3:16, we uncover the layers of God’s love and its transformative power.

Love is not merely a fleeting emotion; it is a decision rooted in the fabric of the universe. The source of all love is God, the uncreated being, the architect of dimensions, and the embodiment of love itself. In a world that often reduces love to chemical reactions and evolutionary advantages, the sermon reminds us that true love, with its facets of loyalty, compassion, fairness, generosity, honor, and humility, can only be explained by acknowledging a divine origin.

For God So Loved the World

John 3:16 is an iconic verse that states, “For God so loved the world.” This simple yet profound statement encapsulates the depth of God's love and his desire to reach every corner of humanity. Unlike other belief systems that lack the recognition of love as a divine attribute, Christianity boldly declares that God is love.

God’s love knows no bounds; it extends to every individual, transcending time, ethnicity, and economic status. God orchestrated world history to create a window of opportunity for the gospel to spread. From Jewish spirituality and Greek language to Roman domination, every element played a role in paving the way for the message of love to reach the ends of the earth.

God’s Ultimate Act of Love

This scripture paints a vivid picture of the magnitude of God’s love through the sacrificial act of giving his only Son. The imagery used to describe this act, such as “light crashing into darkness” and “the Word made flesh,” emphasizes the extraordinary nature of God’s love. The concept of God giving his Son for the entire world, regardless of status or background, challenges traditional beliefs and highlights the inclusivity of God's love.

The Ultimate Invitation: Whoever Believes

There is a paradoxical nature of the invitation extended by God—infinitely open, yet requiring a personal response. The use of tax collectors, considered societal outcasts, as examples of those who accepted the invitation emphasizes the all-encompassing nature of God’s love. It challenges the notion that God’s love is reserved for a select few and underscores the importance of personal belief.

The ultimate promise of God’s love is everlasting life. The contrast between the natural path of death and the spiritual birth that leads to eternal life is the essence of God’s gift. This promise is described using explosive language, underscoring the significance of God’s love during the Christmas season.

Reflecting on God’s Love

Take a moment right now to reflect on the love that surpasses understanding. John 3:16 serves as a timeless reminder of the depth, breadth, and height of God’s love. In a world often characterized by division and strife, this message of love stands as a beacon of hope and an invitation to experience the transformative power of God’s eternal love.

May this reflection lead us to embrace God’s love for ourselves and extend it to others during this Christmas season and beyond. Let us carry the message of love, the ultimate gift, into the world, becoming vessels of God’s transformative and unending love.

Blog adapted from December 17, 2023 message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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