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Finding Peace in a World of Anxiety
Finding peace seems like an elusive quest in a world of rising anxiety, where inflation erodes spending power and notifications demand constant attention. The pressure to meet performance, athletic, and fashion standards adds to the burden, making it challenging to navigate daily life without the crippling weight of stress.
Finding peace seems like an elusive quest in a world of rising anxiety, where inflation erodes spending power and notifications demand constant attention. The pressure to meet performance, athletic, and fashion standards adds to the burden, making it challenging to navigate daily life without the crippling weight of stress.
For those in their middle years, responsibilities may even multiply, encompassing tending to personal well-being, nurturing children, and caring for aging parents. For some in this stage of life, having management roles at work then bring the additional stress of overseeing employees’ welfare and performance.
The demands on individuals, both young and old, are overwhelming.
Amid this chaos, we must point ourselves to Jesus, the source of peace. This message is prevalent in the biblical narrative of John the Baptist. As we explore John’s baptism ministry, we discover a powerful lesson on surrender as the antidote to anxiety.
Surrender: the Antidote to Anxiety
The narrative unfolds with Jesus and his disciples baptizing in the Judean countryside. John, too, is baptizing at Aenon near Salim. As the story progresses, a conflict arises. John’s disciples express concern about Jesus’ baptisms, likely stemming from a subtle undercurrent of pride and jealousy. John’s response, however, provides a profound insight into finding peace:
“He must become greater; I must become less.” —John 3:30
This key to peace lies in redirecting focus away from oneself and towards Jesus. One analogy that applies is that of a best man at a wedding. The best man’s job is to serve the groom and emphasize his joy, rather than seek personal recognition. This is what John the Baptist tries to show his disciples—it’s exactly how he views the importance of his own ministry. John is ushering in the Son of God, not competing with Jesus for attention.
Six Areas of Surrender
Surrender My Control to God’s Plan: Acknowledge God’s sovereignty over life’s course, even when it seems unexpected or challenging
Surrender My Worry to God’s Power: Trust that God, not worry, holds control over life’s uncertainties
Surrender My Impatience to God’s Timing: Accept that God’s timing may differ from personal expectations, and practice patience in the midst of the waiting
Surrender My Hurt to God’s Healing: Embrace God's ability to heal emotional wounds and redefine personal identity
Surrender My Effort to God’s Salvation: Recognize that salvation is not earned through human efforts but is a free gift from God
Surrender My Pride and Jealousy to God’s Glory: Redirect focus from self-promotion to glorifying God and his purposes
Cosmic Peace Through Belief
This week’s message concludes with a call to believe in Jesus, the source of eternal life. Rejecting Jesus keeps us in a state of spiritual conflict. The peace offered through accepting Christ is cosmic, transcending any past mistakes or regrets.
“Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life, but whoever rejects the Son will not see life, for God’s wrath remains on them.” —John 3:36
In a world overwhelmed by anxiety, the path to peace lies in surrender—surrendering control, worry, impatience, hurt, effort, and pride. Through the lens of John the Baptist'‘ teachings, we find a timeless message of finding true peace in the embrace of Jesus, the Prince of Peace.
Blog adapted from December 10, 2023 message by Minister Mark Ashton
Finding Joy Beyond Circumstances
The Advent season is a time of reflection and anticipation, focusing on themes centered around the true meaning of the Christmas story. This week's theme is joy. We often hear the familiar carol, “Joy to the world, the Lord has come,” which echoes the desire for joy, a longing we feel especially during the holidays. However, in a society driven by the pursuit of success, the quest for joy often takes a back seat. This blog delves into Mark's sermon, exploring the concept of joy through the lens of John the Baptist and revealing how his life exemplifies a joy that transcends circumstances.
The Advent season is a time of reflection and anticipation, focusing on themes centered around the true meaning of the Christmas story. This week's theme is joy. We often hear the familiar carol, “Joy to the world, the Lord has come,” which echoes the desire for joy, a longing we feel especially during the holidays. However, in a society driven by the pursuit of success, the quest for joy often takes a back seat. This blog delves into Mark's sermon, exploring the concept of joy through the lens of John the Baptist and revealing how his life exemplifies a joy that transcends circumstances.
Joy in Identity
In a world obsessed with happiness, statistics abound about who tends to be happier. However, the sermon points out that the fleeting nature of happiness is precisely why the pursuit of happiness isn't a life goal for some. Instead, the focus is on deeper goals—like following Jesus and making good choices. John the Baptist, an unconventional figure associated with repentance and preparation, had an unexpected joy rooted in a clear sense of identity.
John denies being the Messiah, Elijah, or the Prophet. His humility shines through as he describes himself using the words of Isaiah, positioning himself as the voice in the wilderness preparing the way for the Lord. John’s joy stemmed from knowing his identity—he was a signpost, a herald pointing to someone greater. In a society driven by achievements and acquisitions, John's contentment with his calling prompts reflection on the deeper joy found in understanding one’s identity in Christ.
Joy in the Secret
John’s baptism, symbolic and stirring, was a setup—a precursor to the main act. He knew a secret: the one coming after him would change everything. He declares, “Among you stands one you do not know. He is the one who comes after me, the straps of whose sandals I am not worthy to untie” (John 1:26b–27). This secret, hidden behind the festive decorations and gifts, is the heart of Christmas—the arrival of someone greater than any celebration or tradition.
In a similar vein, the sermon encourages everyone to look beyond the surface of holiday festivities, recognizing the true significance of Christmas. The joy lies not in the trappings but in the knowledge of the One whose arrival transforms lives.
Joy in Knowing the Lamb & the Plan
John’s joy reached its pinnacle when he saw Jesus coming toward him. He proclaims, “Look, the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world!” (John 1:29b). Here, John points to the sacrificial nature of Jesus, the substitutionary sacrifice that would pay for sins. John’s joy was rooted in understanding the significance of Jesus’ arrival—he wasn't just a remarkable figure, but the Lamb of God with the power to redeem.
The specific location, Bethany on the other side of the Jordan, is linked to significant events in biblical history. This spot, associated with the crossing of the Jordan and the passing of the mantle from Elijah to Elisha, becomes the backdrop for John’s declaration. The parallel drawn between these events emphasizes the ushering in of a new era, a new kingdom, and the multiplication of spiritual power.
In the final revelation, John speaks of Jesus baptizing with the Holy Spirit—a transformative, joy-inducing experience. The Holy Spirit brings the very presence of God, the power to resist sin, and a new perspective on life. The joy that transcends circumstances is found in the indwelling of the Spirit.
As we journey through the Advent season, we want to encourage readers to emulate John the Baptist’s joy. In this context, joy is not a fleeting feeling or a circumstantial emotion; instead, it is found in a person—Jesus. True joy is discovered by understanding one’s identity, recognizing the secret of Christmas beyond the decorations and gifts, and embracing the Holy Spirit’s transformative power. This joy, rooted in the advent of Jesus, becomes the focal point of the season, transforming it from a time of fleeting happiness to a celebration of enduring joy.
Blog adapted from December 3, 2023 message by Minister Mark Ashton
Living Beyond Ourselves
We stand at a unique moment in the history of our church. The walls of our building echo with 102 years of history, of trials and triumphs, and now they stand as a testament to our faithfulness. Debt-free and with a renovated sanctuary, we are not raising funds to pay for past expenses. Instead, we find ourselves at a crossroads, presented with a rare opportunity for radical generosity.
We stand at a unique moment in the history of our church. The walls of our building echo with 102 years of history, of trials and triumphs, and now they stand as a testament to our faithfulness. Debt-free and with a renovated sanctuary, we are not raising funds to pay for past expenses. Instead, we find ourselves at a crossroads, presented with a rare opportunity for radical generosity. But before we delve into commitments of financial abundance, we must first commit ourselves to Jesus. Let's look at Acts 20.
Paul’s Message to the Ephesian Elders
The backdrop of Ephesus sets the stage for Paul's message to the elders. Having spent two impactful years in Ephesus, Paul had deep connections with the church and its leaders. He anticipated challenges ahead as he journeyed to Jerusalem with a gift for the famine-stricken church. His words in Acts 20:24 reveal a profound commitment driven by the Spirit:
“I consider my life worth nothing to me; my only aim is to finish the race and complete the task the Lord Jesus has given me—the task of testifying to the good news of God’s grace.” —Acts 20:24
Life Worth Nothing: Embracing the principle of death and life in Christ, Paul declares that his life is worth nothing apart from the call of Jesus. Following Christ means dying to self and living for him completely.
Finish the Race, Complete the Task: Recognizing that life is a race, Paul emphasizes the singular task assigned by Jesus—testifying to the good news of God’s grace. It’s a mission that transcends personal comfort and convenience.
Testifying to God’s Grace: The central mission is clear—spreading the message of God’s grace far and wide. It’s a call to be ambassadors of love, messengers of hope, and vessels of God’s extravagant grace.
Living Beyond the Small Things
Paul’s message challenges us to evaluate the worth of our pursuits. Too often, we find ourselves engrossed in small, temporal concerns—possessions, achievements, or personal comfort. Jesus, in Matthew 6, reminds us to seek first the kingdom of God, assuring that all other things will follow.
Called to Move Beyond Ourselves
Beyond Debt-Free Facilities: While celebrating our debt-free status and facility improvements, we are reminded that it’s too small a thing. Our mission extends to reaching thousands with the transformative message of God’s grace.
Beyond Past Achievements: Reflecting on past achievements such as the hospital project in Gold Kingdom, we realize our mission isn’t done. We must press on, bringing the gospel to unreached people groups and planting churches where they’re needed.
Beyond Personal Comfort: Our calling goes beyond personal comfort and convenience. We must extend love, justice, and grace to all of Omaha, especially those without a church home.
This unique moment demands introspection. What are we living for—the American dream, personal comfort, or the gospel? As disciples of Jesus, we give ourselves first to him and then to his mission. It’s a call to radical generosity, a commitment to rearrange our lives for the sake of the gospel. Let’s embrace this opportunity, not just as a financial commitment but as a lifestyle of radical generosity, living beyond ourselves for the glory of God.
Blog adapted from November 19, 2023 message by Minister Mark Ashton
Reach One More: A Call to Boldness and Generosity
In the over 100-year history at Christ Community Church, God has done some amazing things through the decades. In the grand tapestry of history, we find ourselves standing on the shoulders of giants, asking, “What can we do today?” The next chapter for our vision is a riveting mission to reach people with the gospel. It echoes the age-old question posed by the apostles: How can we reach one more, and one more, and one more?
In the over 100-year history at Christ Community Church, God has done some amazing things through the decades. In the grand tapestry of history, we find ourselves standing on the shoulders of giants, asking, “What can we do today?” The next chapter for our vision is a riveting mission to reach people with the gospel. It echoes the age-old question posed by the apostles: How can we reach one more, and one more, and one more? Let's delve into the biblical narrative of Acts 4 to draw inspiration for our journey of faith and action.
Boldness in the Face of Opposition
The narrative unfolds with Peter and John confronted by a beggar, boldly declaring, “We don't have silver or gold, but we do have Jesus.” This courageous act of healing lands them in trouble with the authorities. But, undeterred, they stand before the Sanhedrin, proclaiming the sovereignty of God even in the face of adversity.
The apostles’ response to the threat of silence is surprising. Instead of cowering in fear, they gather for a prayer meeting, asking for boldness to speak the word of God. Their prayers are marked by a profound acknowledgment of God’s sovereignty over all, even in the most challenging circumstances.
Bold Prayers for Bold Actions
Their prayers are not like our typical pleas for security or comfort. Instead, they start by recognizing God’s absolute authority over the universe and every earthly power, including governments that may act against morality and common sense. In their petition, they ask for the strength to speak boldly in the face of threats accompanied by supernatural signs and wonders.
This episode teaches us a valuable lesson about the nature of boldness. When filled with the Holy Spirit, boldness becomes the hallmark of our faith. In our era, characterized by the raised eyebrow rather than the raised sword, the disciples' request for increased boldness is especially poignant.
Generosity as a Sign of Spirit Filling
The narrative doesn’t stop at bold prayers; it extends to the realm of generosity. Acts 4 paints a picture of believers who are not possessive of their possessions. They become a community where “no one claimed that any of their possessions was their own.” This selflessness resulted in a powerful testimony to the resurrection of Jesus, and God’s grace was evident in their midst.
Challenging Cultural Norms
The concept of sharing everything challenges the prevailing cultural norms, particularly in a society like contemporary America, where ownership is deeply ingrained. The passage reminds us that every blessing comes from God, and generosity is a reflection of our likeness to the generous nature of God.
Embarking on a journey of spiritual reflection and intentional living often begins with a simple question: “Am I using my possessions for God's glory?” This introspective inquiry encourages us to assess the purpose behind each item we own, prompting a thoughtful examination of our material treasures.
Start this transformative process by creating an inventory of your belongings, starting with the most significant assets. Take, for example, your home—a space where God's glory can manifest through fostering children, hosting residents, or nurturing a community group. If your answer is a resounding “yes,” fantastic! You're leveraging that asset for divine purposes.
Move on to the next item, perhaps your car, and repeat the evaluation. If it, too, is contributing to God’s glory, you’re on the right track. However, as you progress through your possessions, you might encounter items that are gathering dust or leading you away from God’s intended path. Here lies the crucial juncture: redeem or release.
Redeem: Breathing New Purpose
To redeem an item is to declare, “I am committed to using this for God's glory.” Take the example of a neglected motorcycle. Instead of allowing it to languish in the garage, consider how it can be repurposed. Perhaps you can connect with a friend who shares the same passion for biking, turning it into an opportunity for fellowship. Alternatively, use the motorcycle as a means to commune with God in the serenity of nature. By redeeming neglected possessions, we infuse them with newfound purpose and align them with God's plan for our lives.
Release: Liberating for Kingdom Purposes
The alternative path is release. This involves parting ways with possessions that do not contribute to God’s glory. Selling the item and directing the proceeds toward a cause like Reach One More allows your possessions to serve a higher purpose. Whether it’s a motorcycle, electronics, a portion of your wardrobe, or a collection of old video games, releasing these items can fund initiatives that make a difference in the world. It’s a tangible way to ensure that your material wealth aligns with your spiritual values.
The journey of redeeming or releasing possessions is a powerful step towards intentional living. By continually assessing the role of our belongings in glorifying God, we pave the way for a purpose-driven and spiritually enriched life. So, as you survey your belongings, consider the transformative impact that redeeming or releasing can have on both your possessions and your journey of faith.
As we embark on a vision initiative, we draw inspiration from Acts 4. Our commitment to boldness in sharing our faith and generosity is the essence of our journey. The call to reach one more is not just a slogan; it’s a clarion call to be a highly unusual, curve-wrecking church. Let’s be known for wrecking the curve on reaching people, on generosity, and on inclusivity. Our dream is audacious—to make heaven crowded and make it hard to get to hell from wherever we are. Let’s embrace the challenge and reach one more!
Blog adapted from November 12, 2023 message by Minister Mark Ashton
The Church of Antioch: A Model of Generosity and Missions
In Acts 13, we find ourselves in the vibrant and diverse church of Antioch. It’s a passage in the New Testament that often goes unnoticed, but it holds invaluable lessons about the nature of the early Christian Church and its mission. In this blog, we’ll delve into this scripture to uncover some vital insights that remain relevant for modern believers.
In Acts 13, we find ourselves in the vibrant and diverse church of Antioch. It’s a passage in the New Testament that often goes unnoticed, but it holds invaluable lessons about the nature of the early Christian Church and its mission. In this blog, we’ll delve into this scripture to uncover some vital insights that remain relevant for modern believers.
The church of Antioch was unique in its composition. It was a true representation of the diversity that the gospel was meant to reach. The key members of this church hailed from various regions:
Barnabas: From the Mediterranean island of Cyprus
Simeon called Niger: Likely African descent (country unknown)
Lucius of Cyrene: Representing ancient Libya, another African
Manaen: Raised alongside Herod in Northern Israel
Saul: A native of Tarsus in Turkey (Asia Minor)
This congregation was a beautiful blend of individuals from different backgrounds and locations. In our time, we can observe the same multiethnic spirit in our church, with Hispanic, Nepali-Bhutanese, Sudanese, and Hmong services, and a Deaf ministry all integrated into one community. The more diverse we become, the more we resemble heaven, and there’s always room for one more!
The Game Changer: Sending Missionaries
While the multiethnic composition is inspiring, the real game changer in Acts 13 is the commissioning of missionaries. This is the first instance of missionaries being set apart for a specific task. The significance lies in who was sent and where they were going. Barnabas and Saul were not just any believers; they were among the best and brightest. The reason for their mission was to reach unreached people, those who had never heard the gospel.
Today, billions in the world still haven’t heard about Jesus, and thousands of people groups remain unreached. Shockingly, for every hundred dollars given to Christian organizations, less than two pennies go towards reaching these unreached people. This is a stark contrast to the vast resources spent on various other endeavors, even trivial ones. The church of Antioch's passion was clear: “Not on my watch!” They were willing to send their best to the hardest and darkest places because everyone needs to hear about Jesus.
Here, There, and Everywhere
The message of the gospel is too precious to keep to ourselves or within the walls of the church. We must reach one more here, there, and everywhere. This has been the DNA of Christ Community Church for a century. The church is known for its generosity, sacrifice, and commitment to missions. It’s not about sending leftovers but our best and brightest to share the Good News.
Partnering for the Future
One of the proudest moments for Christ Community Church is its partnership with a remarkable individual in the Christian and Missionary Alliance (C&MA). After extensive prayer and seeking, the right partner for CCC missions was found. Though there are sensitivities involved, the work being done is significant. The church is investing in projects that make a profound impact, and this partnership is a beacon of hope in a place CCC has code-named “Green City.”
Investing in Church Planting
Christ Community Church has a history of planting churches, but it's time to look beyond its immediate vicinity. With online services and hybrid attendance, there is still room to reach one more within its walls. Instead of adding more churches where there's already a presence, the church plans to plant churches in cities where there are no Christian congregations. The goal is ambitious: to plant 27 churches by 2027, reaching populations with less than a 1% chance of being Christian.
The Role of Resources
To achieve these ambitious goals, resources are necessary. The church is open about its financial needs and encourages the congregation to consider how much of their resources belong to God. It’s all God’s money anyway, and the question isn’t, “How much should I give to God?” but rather, “How much of God's money should I keep for myself?”
For those facing financial challenges, I can understand well from the beginning of my marriage with Kelle as a young, married couple struggling financially. We chose to trust God with our finances and witnessed his provision even in difficult circumstances. Low-income individuals inspire wealthier members with their generous giving, echoing biblical examples of sacrificial giving.
Generous, Joyful, Sacrificial
The New Testament doesn’t prescribe a specific percentage for giving, but it emphasizes generosity, joy, and sacrifice. The heart of giving matters more than a fixed percentage. As Christians, we’re called to be generous, joyful, and sacrificial givers.
The lessons from the church of Antioch are timeless. Its multiethnic composition, commitment to missions, and unwavering dedication to reaching the unreached continue to inspire Christians today. Christ Community Church is living out these principles, and their vision for the future is a call to action for all believers: to be generous, joyful, and sacrificial in sharing the gospel—here, there, and everywhere.
Blog adapted from October 29, 2023 message by Minister Mark Ashton
Reach One More: A Call to Action
We are inviting you to embark on a new chapter at Christ Community Church called Reach One More. This vision has been part of CCC's DNA for over a century, but in the 2020s, we are giving it fresh expression. Today, October 22, we're launching a five-week period of self-reflection, recommitment to Jesus, and realignment of our lives and our church around his promises.
We are inviting you to embark on a new chapter at Christ Community Church called Reach One More. This vision has been part of CCC's DNA for over a century, but in the 2020s, we are giving it fresh expression. Today, October 22, we're launching a five-week period of self-reflection, recommitment to Jesus, and realignment of our lives and our church around his promises.
The Philosophy Behind Reach One More
The roots of this philosophy extend far beyond 102 years that CCC has been around. It traces back over two thousand years! As we delve into the book of Acts for the next five weeks, we’ll focus on what that means to reach those around us (here), those in our city (there), and those in our world (everywhere). To help us navigate this journey, we've put together the Reach One More booklet as a resource for you. It includes space for sermon notes, personal devotions, and a link to Community Group discussion guides.
The Act Starts With Acts
Our journey in the book of Acts begins with Jesus’ resurrection and his interactions with his disciples over forty days. During this time period, he expanded their understanding of the cross, the resurrection, and the kingdom. However, the disciples were still caught in an old paradigm, thinking of a political kingdom for Israel. In response, Jesus resets their thinking and outlines his ministry plan for the next 2,000 years.
In Acts 1:8, Jesus presents his master plan for reaching the world:
Jerusalem: Start here. This is where you have credibility, relationships, and a lot working in your favor.
Judea & Samaria: Expand to places that are close by but may be ethnically different.
Ends of the Earth: Go everywhere and tell everyone about Jesus.
Our CCC logo is a reflection of Jesus’ plan in Acts 1:8. It symbolizes our mission to reach Here, There, and Everywhere. This mission is rooted in the idea that people there matter here. Christians exist not just for their own benefit but for the lost—those who are searching, disconnected, and in need of something more significant.
Identifying Your “One More”
As we embark on this Reach One More journey, we want each of you to ask a powerful question: “Who is your ‘one more’?” This is the one person you'll pray for, share with, love, and witness to daily. We encourage you to write their name down, share it with your Community Group, and pray consistently for them.
The Role of Prayer
Consistent prayer plays a pivotal role in the Reach One More initiative. Those who pray daily for opportunities to witness are more likely to get those opportunities. We need to consistently ask God to open doors and redeem lives, and he is eager to answer that prayer if we make it a regular practice.
The Reach One More initiative isn't just about individuals but extends to various groups in need:
Deaf Ministry: Omaha is a hub for Deaf individuals, and we have a unique opportunity to reach this unreached people group. We aim to be more inclusive and provide resources to expand this ministry.
Students: Our Student Center has served us well for eighteen years, but it’s due time for an upgrade to reach students for another eighteen. We need to share the stories of David, Goliath, Daniel, Moses, and, most importantly, Jesus with them.
Youth Sports: Our soccer and flag football ministries are growing, and we must seize the opportunity to share the gospel with young athletes who may have never heard these stories before.
A Call to Sacrificial Giving
In the next five weeks, I'll ask you to give sacrificially towards Reach One More. It's not just about financial commitment; it's about who is first in your life. We are stewards of God's resources, and we must prioritize him in our spending. Giving first to God is a testament to his importance in our lives.
In Acts 2:42–47, we see the early Church’s simple yet powerful practices that led to exponential growth:
Apostles’ teaching (Bible reading and prayer)
Fellowship (community)
Breaking of bread (communion and eating together)
Prayer
This is what we all need today—a steady diet of God's Word, good friends who follow Jesus, and time with God in prayer. These practices should be the foundation of our lives.
The “One More” Prayer
Challenge yourself to read one chapter of Acts each day for 28 days and pray, “Do it again, Lord.” Pray for healing, salvation, and spiritual growth. God is still at work, healing people, setting them free from spiritual bondage, and changing lives in Omaha.
Our goal is to reach one more, and it starts with identifying your “One More.” They matter to God, and their life has the potential to impact generations. With over 3,000 people at CCC, each of us reaching one more means we’re reaching thousands more. God believes in you, and I believe in you. So—are you in?
As you go throughout your day, I want you to think about your “One More” and lift that person in prayer daily. We have an incredible opportunity to change lives and bring more people into the fold of God's love. It's not just a commitment to CCC; it's a commitment to God's mission. Let's do it together and be part of something extraordinary!
Blog adapted from October 22, 2023 message by Minister Mark Ashton
The Path to Becoming Unoffendable: Mastering Forgiveness
In our journey towards becoming unoffendable, we’ve already covered the importance of being slow to anger and avoiding sin in our anger. In this blog, we dive deep into the vital concept of forgiveness. When mastered alongside being slow to anger, forgiveness paves the way for us to achieve unoffendability.
In our journey towards becoming unoffendable, we’ve already covered the importance of being slow to anger and avoiding sin in our anger. In this blog, we dive deep into the vital concept of forgiveness. When mastered alongside being slow to anger, forgiveness paves the way for us to achieve unoffendability. If you’ve been following our series, you know that this topic is part of a larger conversation, and today we’ll explore the profound wisdom found in the Bible’s teachings on forgiveness.
The Biblical Commandment
Colossians 3:13 gives us an essential insight into the challenge of forgiveness: “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” This command is demanding because it requires us to forgive as the Lord forgave us. And how did the Lord forgive? Unconditionally and sacrificially. Jesus's immense sacrifice on the cross for our sins dwarfs any notion of forgiveness we might hold.
Matthew 6:14–15 underscores the symbiotic relationship between being forgiven and being a forgiver. It states that if we forgive others, our heavenly Father will also forgive us. While this verse isn’t a formula for salvation, it emphasizes the critical role of forgiveness in our spiritual journey. Forgiveness is indeed a significant aspect of our faith, and its importance cannot be overstated.
Three Key Reasons for Forgiveness
For You: Holding onto bitterness can corrode your soul. Forgiveness is essential for your own emotional and spiritual well-being.
For Others: Forgiveness offers others the opportunity for redemption and reconciliation. When you forgive, you become a living embodiment of the gospel, exemplifying the power of forgiveness.
Formation: Forgiveness shapes you into a more Christ-like individual. The magnitude of forgiveness mirrors your Christlikeness and enhances your inner beauty.
Life inevitably brings hurt and offense. From minor annoyances like queue jumpers to profound betrayals and abuses, we all face varying degrees of pain. Take a moment to reflect on an episode in your life, either one you've forgiven or one that you still struggle with. Keep this experience in mind as we delve further into the topic.
Defining Forgiveness
To understand forgiveness better, let’s clarify what it is not:
Forgiveness is not excusing or condoning behavior.
Forgiveness doesn’t grant permission for repeat offenses.
Forgiveness doesn’t require you to forget.
Forgiveness is not always quick or easy; sometimes, it takes repeated effort.
The Four Rs of Forgiveness
Revenge (Never): Revenge perpetuates a cycle of harm and is best avoided.
Release (Always): Releasing bitterness and hatred empowers you to regain control of your life and emotions.
Reconcile (Usually): Strive to make peace with others when possible, as long as it’s safe and wise.
Reinstate (Sometimes): Reinstatement may be appropriate in certain cases, but it’s not always advisable.
The Power of Apology
A sincere apology can work wonders in the process of reconciliation. It’s essential to admit wrongdoing and make amends when necessary. A good apology can be a game-changer in repairing relationships.
Forgiveness is undoubtedly challenging, but it’s within our reach. Remember these key points:
God handles revenge; you don't need to seek vengeance.
Jesus sets a powerful example of forgiveness.
Forgiveness allows you to experience Christ-likeness.
Forgiveness is an act of love, and it sets both you and the other person free.
As we navigate the complexities of life and relationships, let’s strive to become more forgiving individuals, embodying the love and grace that were extended to us. By doing so, we inch closer to achieving unoffendability, one step at a time.
Blog adapted from October 8, 2023 message by Minister Mark Ashton
Living Without Anger: The Path to Being Unoffendable
Is it possible to live without anger? In a world where offense seems to be the norm, this question becomes increasingly relevant with the growing prevalence of outrage in our culture. It's time to explore what has fueled this phenomenon over the past decade.
Is it possible to live without anger? In a world where offense seems to be the norm, this question becomes increasingly relevant with the growing prevalence of outrage in our culture. It's time to explore what has fueled this phenomenon over the past decade. Let’s examine four key factors:
1. Social Media: The rise of social media has given us a platform to express our opinions without face-to-face interactions. Unfortunately, it has also encouraged us to say things online that we would never say to someone in person.
2. 24-Hour News: The media landscape has become increasingly polarized, dividing us along political lines and convincing us that those who disagree with us are foolish.
3. Divided Politics: The political climate has become a battleground, where parties vie for power and view any gain by the opposition as a threat.
4. Academic Culture: The educational system now teaches students to be easily offended, introducing concepts like “microaggressions” and “safe zones,” which hypersensitize an entire generation.
These factors affect people from all walks of life, irrespective of their wealth, race, or political leanings.
The Role of Anger
A significant aspect of becoming unoffendable is dealing with anger. If you find yourself frequently angry or harboring anger beneath the surface, it's likely that you're easily offended. Proverbs warns us about the dangers of anger:
“A wise man fears the LORD and shuns evil, but a fool is hotheaded and reckless. A quick-tempered man does foolish things, and a crafty man is hated.” —Proverbs 14:16–17
At first, you might think, “I'm not an angry person,” but upon closer examination, you may discover moments of anger that surprise you. In the Bible, anger is often associated with words like “burn,” “fierce,” “hostility,” and “wrath,” which paints a grim picture.
“In your anger, do not sin; do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.” —Ephesians 4:26, 31
Paul, the author of Ephesians, doesn’t portray anger as a sin itself but emphasizes the close relationship between anger and sin. Anger rarely leads to kind words, self-control, or righteousness.
“For as churning the milk produces butter, and as twisting the nose produces blood, so stirring up anger produces strife.” —Proverbs 30:33
This vivid imagery highlights the direct connection between anger and strife. Consequently, Paul advises us to rid ourselves of bitterness, rage, anger, brawling, slander, and malice.
The Destructive Power of Anger
Anger is more than just an emotion; it has profound physiological effects. When you get angry, your body undergoes an "amygdala hijack," an emotional response that prioritizes quick reactions over rational thinking. Your pupils dilate, your heart races, and hormones like cortisol and adrenaline surge, preparing you for a fight or flight response.
Unfortunately, repeated anger can have severe consequences, including anxiety, headaches, heart disease, chronic pain, digestive issues, and even skin problems. Angry individuals also tend to engage in unhealthy behaviors such as smoking, emotional eating, and excessive drinking, putting them at risk for accidents and injuries.
Managing Anger
To prevent an amygdala hijack, you can employ several strategies:
Use logic to assess whether the situation warrants anger.
Practice deep breathing to calm your emotions.
Take a break to allow your body to recover from the physiological effects of anger.
Pray for wisdom, peace, and kindness during moments of anger.
Identify triggers and work on addressing the underlying issues.
Do I Have an Anger Problem?
If you answered yes to two or more of the above questions, you may struggle with explosive anger. If this resonates with you, consider seeking help through counseling or other resources to address your anger problem.
Choosing Righteousness Over Anger
Ultimately, we must understand that our anger is not on par with God’s righteousness. We often justify our anger, believing it to be righteous, but God’s anger is always perfectly just. He desires for us to live a life marked by gratitude and self-control rather than anger.
The path to becoming unoffendable is not easy, but it is possible with God’s help. He loves you, forgives your sins, and equips you with the Holy Spirit to live a life characterized by love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. As you embark on this journey, remember that God’s dream for you is to be transformed into his image, free from the chains of self-justifying anger. Let us pray together, asking God to help us become a people who are unoffendable and stand out in a culture that thrives on offense.
Blog adapted from October 1, 2023 message by Minister Mark Ashton
Building God’s Kingdom of Shalom
Did you know that God calls us to be priests? Every last one of us. This divine calling is not reserved for a select few but is a privilege extended to every believer. The Bible is replete with verses that emphasize this beautiful truth.
Agents of Flourishing: Amy Sherman has done some excellent biblical thinking about this idea and how it impacts society. The diagram used throughout this blog is adapted from her work.
Did you know that God calls us to be priests? Every last one of us. This divine calling is not reserved for a select few but is a privilege extended to every believer. The Bible is replete with verses that emphasize this beautiful truth.
“Now if you obey me fully and keep my covenant, then out of all nations you will be my treasured possession. Although the whole earth is mine, you will be for me a kingdom of priests and a holy nation.” —Exodus 19:5
“But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.” —1 Peter 2:9
“To him who loves us and has freed us from our sins by his blood and has made us to be a kingdom and priests to serve his God and Father.” —Revelation 1:5–6
Try saying to yourself, “I am a priest!” Did that feel a little uncomfortable? Priests are those who intercede for God, representing him to the people and the people to God. And guess what? Every time you pray on behalf of others, you are taking on that priestly role. When you go out into the world—whether it’s dining at a restaurant, working out at the gym, or attending a class at the university—you represent God to the world.
What’s truly remarkable about God’s design for us is that everybody gets to be a priest. There isn’t a special class of priests in the Christian faith. We’ve created this distinction between laypeople and professional Christians, but it doesn’t come from the Bible. In God’s eyes, when it comes to representing Jesus, everyone is equal—we are a kingdom of priests!
Our role as priests in the kingdom of Shalom is crucial, and it ushers in the presence of God to a world that desperately needs it. Let’s break down how each of us, in our everyday lives, contributes to the kingdom in six essential ways:
1. The Good:
Every action you take contributes to the kingdom. Whether you're writing an expense report, assisting a customer, or sending an email, you are not merely an employee, a parent, or a politician. You are a priest, representing people to God and God to people. Your role is critical in bringing forth the kingdom of Shalom.
2. The Just:
This category includes individuals like police officers, military personnel, lawyers, and government officials. These individuals uphold justice in society, ensuring that laws are followed and wrongs are made right. For instance, consider the vital role of the police in maintaining peace and safety in our communities.
3. The Prosperous:
Entrepreneurs, business owners, HR professionals, financial advisors, accountants, janitors, operations staff—they all play a part in creating economic shalom. A thriving economy provides opportunities for growth, self-sufficiency, and a better life for everyone, especially those on the lowest rungs of the economic ladder.
4. The Sustainable:
Think of those in the healthcare sector—doctors, nurses, counselors, chiropractors, nutritionists, and trainers. They contribute to physical and emotional healing, aligning with Jesus’ mission of healing the sick. Farmers also play a crucial role by co-creating with God to provide food for humanity.
5. The True:
This category includes educators, journalists, bloggers, librarians, and individuals who inspire truth and wisdom in our culture. They help direct our values.
6. The Beautiful:
This category includes artists, architects, musicians, city planners—any individual who works to develop beauty and inspire creativity in our communities. They help shape our perspectives and understanding of the world and bring beauty to our surroundings, reflecting God’s creativity in our own world.
By embracing your calling as a kingdom bringer, you contribute to the flourishing of the kingdom of Shalom in your sphere of influence. Your work matters, not just in a worldly sense but in a spiritual sense as well. You are building a cathedral to the Almighty, and your efforts will stand for generations.
So, what are you doing today? Are you merely going through the motions of your daily tasks, or are you actively building the kingdom of Shalom? Embrace your calling, and may the Lord cause you to flourish, both you and your children, as you live out your role as a priest in God's kingdom.
Blog adapted from September 17, 2023 message by Minister Mark Ashton
Agents of Transformation
In Jeremiah 29, we find a powerful message from the Lord to the people carried into exile from Jerusalem to Babylon. The message is clear: “Build houses and settle down; plant gardens and eat what they produce. Marry and have sons and daughters; find wives for your sons and give your daughters in marriage, so that they too may have sons and daughters. Increase in number there; do not decrease. Also, seek the Shalom and prosperity of the city to which I have carried you into exile. Pray to the Lord for it, because if it prospers, you too will prosper.”
In Jeremiah 29, we find a powerful message from the Lord to the people carried into exile from Jerusalem to Babylon. The message is clear: “Build houses and settle down; plant gardens and eat what they produce. Marry and have sons and daughters; find wives for your sons and give your daughters in marriage, so that they too may have sons and daughters. Increase in number there; do not decrease. Also, seek the Shalom and prosperity of the city to which I have carried you into exile. Pray to the Lord for it, because if it prospers, you too will prosper.”
The central theme here is seeking the good of the city, flourishing not just for oneself but for the entire community. This message, though given to people in exile, holds valuable lessons for all of us, especially those of us able to be agents of transformation in our communities.
In this series, we've explored four pillars of flourishing: Community, Divine Encounters, Character, and Meaning & Purpose. These pillars provide a foundation for a flourishing life, and they are worth examining in our own lives.
Imagine a city where 3000 people are flourishing, deeply connected to God, in strong community, characterized by high moral standards, and filled with the meaning of God's kingdom. Now, expand that vision to encompass 40,000 or even 160,000 individuals, all living with a commitment to “Seek first the Kingdom of God and his righteousness.” The transformation that could occur is awe-inspiring.
Agents of Flourishing: Amy Sherman has done some excellent biblical thinking about this idea and how it impacts society. The diagram used throughout this blog is adapted from her work.
The Good
Jesus called us to be the “salt of the earth.” Salt not only enhances flavor but also preserves. In the same way, we are called to bring so much good into our cities that we preserve them from decay. The Church, when functioning correctly, is a powerful force for good, offering community, connection with God, reconciliation, healing, and hope.
The Church has been instrumental in societal progress, providing education, healthcare, and support for the poor. The influence of Christianity on culture has been profound, leading to the transformation of societal norms and values for the better.
The True
God is the source of truth, wisdom, and understanding. Jesus emphasized the importance of truth, stating, “You shall know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” As Christians, we must champion truth in all aspects of life, including education.
Education is a means to know God and embrace his mission of Shalom. Educated individuals have the tools to make a positive impact on the world. We need educators who teach truth, uphold morality, and equip students with knowledge and skills to pursue peace, justice, and wholeness.
The Beautiful
God is the ultimate creator of beauty, and we, as his image-bearers, have a desire for beauty ingrained in our souls. Artists, architects, and creators are the ones who restore the beauty that our world so desperately needs. The Church has a long history of contributing to beauty through art, music, architecture, and creativity.
When we infuse beauty into our surroundings, we reflect God’s creativity and add value to humanity. Beauty has the power to touch hearts and souls, making it an essential agent of transformation in our culture.
As we explore these pillars of flourishing—the Good, the True, and the Beautiful—we must ask ourselves how we fit into this transformative equation. Are we actively seeking the good of our city, championing truth, and infusing beauty into our surroundings?
Each one of us has a role to play as an agent of flourishing. Whether through our careers, volunteer work, or family life, we can embody the values of the kingdom of God and contribute to the transformation of our communities. In the coming weeks, we will delve into the other pillars of flourishing, so stay tuned for more insights on how we can make a meaningful impact in our world through Shalom. Let us continue to seek the good, the true, and the beautiful, knowing that in doing so, we reflect the very nature of our Creator.
Blog adapted from September 10, 2023 message by Minister Mark Ashton
Cultivating Character for a Flourishing Life
In a world where character is visible, where virtues and flaws are tangible, how would you present yourself? Character isn’t a static trait; it’s the sum of our actions, choices, and behaviors over time. Just as a skilled painter creates a masterpiece with each brushstroke, we craft our character with each decision.
“Every time you make a choice you are turning the central part of you, the part of you that chooses, into something a little different from what it was before...you are slowly turning this central thing either into a heavenly creature or a hellish creature.”
In the tapestry of life, our choices weave the threads that eventually form the fabric of our character. C.S. Lewis’ words remind us that character is the culmination of our decisions, actions, and responses over time. Imagine waking up one day and seeing not your physical appearance in the mirror, but the embodiment of your character. Would you see a heavenly creature or a hellish one, as described by Lewis? In a world where character is visible, where virtues and flaws are tangible, how would you present yourself? This blog delves into the significance of character and its pivotal role in shaping a flourishing life.
Character as the Sum of Actions
Character isn’t a static trait; it’s the sum of our actions, choices, and behaviors over time. Just as a skilled painter creates a masterpiece with each brushstroke, we craft our character with each decision. UCLA basketball coach John Wooden accurately remarked that sports don’t necessarily develop character; they reveal it. This holds true in all aspects of life. Our character is developed through community, adversity, and our interactions with others.
The Importance of Character for Flourishing
Character is intrinsically tied to our flourishing, the shalom life that God intends for us. Psalm 115:14 beautifully captures this sentiment: “May the LORD cause you to flourish, both you and your children.” But how can we achieve such flourishing? Let’s explore the keys to character development and the pathway to a shalom life.
Key Aspects of Character Development:
Alignment of Inner and Outer Worlds: Genuine flourishing occurs when our inner world aligns harmoniously with our outer world. The persona we present in public should mirror our behavior in private. A disparity between these realms indicates a character issue that requires attention. Living authentically, regardless of who’s watching, is essential.
Leaving a Legacy of Impact: Just as a pebble creates ripples in a pond, excellent character leaves a profound impact. In the case of Doug Durbin, whose funeral service I recently did, his legacy wasn’t defined by his intelligence or achievements but by his love, kindness, and mentorship. Character shapes our interactions, influences those around us, and leaves a lasting legacy.
Trust is the Currency of Flourishing: Trust is the currency of flourishing. A strong character builds trust through consistent right actions, sincere love, and ethical behavior. This trust extends to business, family, and life’s trajectory, creating a foundation for success and growth.
Philippians 4 provides a roadmap for character development and flourishing. Here are the key principles:
Yielding to the Spirit: Character transformation isn't solely about self-improvement but yielding to the Spirit's guidance. Rejoicing in the Lord and recognizing His nearness allows the Holy Spirit to flow through us. Rejoicing in God's presence aligns us with the Holy Spirit's transformative power.
Confession and Gratitude: Confession and gratitude are powerful tools. Confession to God and others releases guilt, clears the conscience, and fosters renewal. Gratitude shifts our focus from what we lack to what we have, creating an upward spiral of positive behavior, better mental health, and enhanced relationships.
Guarding Hearts and Minds: Shalom is the culmination of character development. By focusing on noble thoughts, purity, and excellence, we reshape our minds and practices. The result is the transcendent shalom of God guarding our hearts and minds.
Nurturing a Flourishing Life
Character isn’t merely an abstract concept; it’s the driving force behind a life of flourishing. Our choices, actions, and thoughts shape our character, which in turn molds our destiny. The journey toward a shalom life involves aligning our inner and outer worlds, leaving a legacy of impact, and building trust through consistent actions. By following the principles of Philippians 4, practicing confession, gratitude, and mindful thoughts, we pave the way for a life marked by flourishing and authentic character.
Blog adapted from August 27, 2023 message by Minister Mark Ashton
Divine Encounters
In a world brimming with challenges and complexities, it’s natural for us to seek a sense of purpose, peace, and wholeness. Fortunately, the age-old wisdom found in ancient texts offers insights that resonate deeply with our innate desire to flourish. The core concept of “Shalom,” rooted in both the Old and New Testaments, represents a state of peace and wholeness that only God can bring.
In a world brimming with challenges and complexities, it’s natural for us to seek a sense of purpose, peace, and wholeness. Fortunately, the age-old wisdom found in ancient texts offers insights that resonate deeply with our innate desire to flourish.
The core concept of “Shalom,” rooted in both the Old and New Testaments, represents a state of peace and wholeness that only God can bring. It’s an intricate interplay between tranquility and completeness, a state in which we can truly thrive. The manuscript highlights the journey towards Shalom as an integral part of our relationship with God, our personal well-being, and even the harmony of creation itself.
Understanding Divine Encounters
At the heart of flourishing lie the transformative encounters with the divine. These encounters, often referred to as “Divine Encounters,” act as catalysts for growth, healing, and emotional well-being. Drawing on neurological insights, the manuscript introduces the concept of the “Window of Tolerance,” a range of emotional responses that allow us to navigate stressors effectively.
Attachment theory is a psychological framework that reveals the pivotal role of early experiences in shaping our ability to handle stress, conflict, and manage reality. The manuscript vividly explains how being Seen, Soothed, Safe, and Secure during early stages of life lays the foundation for emotional regulation and a healthy window of tolerance.
Divine Encounters in Ancient Wisdom
The manuscript beautifully bridges modern attachment theory with ancient wisdom, specifically focusing on Psalm 34. This passage from the Bible mirrors the four key needs of attachment theory, highlighting God's role in meeting these needs:
Seen: God’s eyes are on the righteous, acknowledging their presence and importance.
Soothed: God’s attentive ears are attuned to their cries, offering comfort and emotional regulation.
Safe: God’s protection is against evil, providing a sense of safety and security.
Secure: God’s deliverance from troubles assures a general sense of well-being.
The correspondence between attachment theory and the biblical narrative underscores the divine nature of these encounters. The manuscript emphasizes that God’s healing is woven into these encounters, filling the gaps left by human deficiencies.
Worship and Community: A Nexus of Flourishing
The manuscript extends its exploration to the power of worship and community. Weekly worship services are not merely rituals but integral components of a flourishing life. These services provide a platform for truth to be expressed through music, for biblical teachings to be internalized, and for suppressed emotions to be released and healed. Neuroscientific research is even beginning to unravel the intricate connection between brain health and worship experiences.
Moreover, the manuscript underscores the significance of community in this process. Regular worship and community engagement are associated with longer life spans, reduced depression and suicide rates, increased generosity, improved health, and stronger values in children.
Flourishing: A Transformative Journey
In the journey of life, the pursuit of flourishing requires a harmonious interplay of divine encounters, community engagement, and personal growth. The manuscript’s insights demonstrate that our Creator, who designed us to flourish, offers pathways to peace, healing, and joy. By embracing divine encounters, engaging in community, and seeking God’s presence, we unlock the potential for a life marked by Shalom—a life of deep fulfillment, wholeness, and purpose.
Blog adapted from August 20, 2023 message by Minister Mark Ashton
The Power of Community and Purpose in Flourishing
In a world filled with anxiety, economic uncertainties, and societal challenges, the concept of flourishing may seem distant. Rates of depression and anxiety are on the rise, educational outcomes are declining, and social issues like racism persist. Despite these daunting circumstances, there is a subset of people who are not only thriving but flourishing amidst the chaos.
In a world filled with anxiety, economic uncertainties, and societal challenges, the concept of flourishing may seem distant. Rates of depression and anxiety are on the rise, educational outcomes are declining, and social issues like racism persist. Despite these daunting circumstances, there is a subset of people who are not only thriving but flourishing amidst the chaos. Recent studies from Gallup, NBC News, and Harvard University shed light on a surprising key to achieving flourishing—weekly worship attendance. This unexpected finding challenges common perceptions and underscores the importance of community and divine encounters in achieving a fulfilling life.
As Americans grapple with mounting challenges, the pursuit of flourishing becomes a focal point. The Gallup survey reveals that only 51% of Americans express deep satisfaction with their lives. However, a staggering 67% of regular weekly worship attendees report high levels of life satisfaction. This compelling statistic raises questions about the factors contributing to this sense of flourishing. Harvard researcher Dr. Tyler VanderWeele delves into the concept of flourishing, examining various applications in the context of modern life. One of the key areas of focus is the impact of family and satisfying relationships on flourishing. This study highlights the idea that flourishing is not solely the mission of religious institutions but rather an essential side effect of a meaningful life.
The Components of Flourishing
Flourishing encompasses five realms and is driven by four key factors that contribute to a life lived to the fullest:
Community of Shalom: Healthy relationships, stable families, and deep friendships contribute significantly to flourishing. The Bible emphasizes the importance of community, both in the Old and New Testaments. Being part of a supportive network aligns with our innate human need for companionship and connection.
Divine Encounter Shalom: Encountering God and experiencing his love, grace, and power is pivotal to internal flourishing. Our journey with God provides an anchor amidst life’s storms, and these divine encounters feed our souls’ longing for meaning and purpose.
Character of Shalom: Flourishing requires aligning our inner selves with our external personas. When our true selves match our public presentation, we experience inner peace, unity, and authenticity.
Shalom Meaning and Purpose: Discovering and living out a purpose that aligns with God’s purpose is a critical aspect of flourishing. Living each day with a sense of meaning and contributing positively to the world around us adds a profound layer of fulfillment.
The Power of Community
One significant driver of flourishing is the presence of a supportive community. Community serves as a crucial backdrop for achieving life satisfaction. Studies show that individuals who are part of a strong community experience lower levels of loneliness, depression, and anxiety. Healthy relationships provide a buffer against life’s challenges and offer opportunities for growth and mutual support.
Marriage and Flourishing
The Harvard study also highlights the impact of healthy marriages on overall well-being. Contrary to popular belief, divorce rates among regular churchgoers are significantly lower than the general population. Churches provide resources such as premarital counseling, marriage groups, and pastoral support that contribute to healthier marriages and, consequently, flourishing individuals.
Embracing Flourishing
In a world marked by turmoil, it is possible to achieve flourishing by nurturing essential aspects of life. Community, divine encounters, and meaningful relationships play a vital role in fostering well-being and life satisfaction. Recognizing the power of these pillars and actively engaging in them can lead to a life that thrives even in the face of adversity.
Flourishing may appear elusive, especially in the midst of societal challenges and personal struggles. However, the unexpected link between weekly worship attendance, community, and divine encounters underscores the transformative power of faith and relationships. By embracing these pillars, individuals can navigate life's complexities and truly flourish, embodying the Shalom that God intended for his creation. As we strive for a life of fulfillment and purpose, let us lean into the support of a nurturing community and seek divine encounters that guide us toward a flourishing existence.
Blog adapted from August 13, 2023 message by Minister Mark Ashton